For more insights on this topic read the comments left below. We allow anonymous comments (but refrain from publishing anything untoward) and this has attracted some very interesting information from the partners of Aquarius men and these men themselves on some occasions.
The Lies of Aquarius Men
Aquarius men will swear the sky is green and leaves are pink. Does it help knowing he is a liar? Would a Lie Detector or a polygraph machine be of any use to you? It probably won't help you but it might do him some good as Aquarius men do not lie maliciously rather they do it natuarlly and aren't conscious of being liars...
Let’s not beat about the bush, the truth is that many, even most, Aquarius Men lie. If they tell their version of the truth this is hardly ever the full truth but instead an edited version of the truth. Their truth will leave out anything Mr Aquarius decides that you don’t want to hear. Their truth will omit anything he doesn’t want you to know.
If an Aquarius man doesn’t want to do something he’ll most likely not say “I don’t want to do that”. Instead he’ll give a totally fictitious reason why he can’t. For example, “I can’t go there with you on that day because I’ve promised to repair a pipe at my mother’s house”.
Coping with the Lies of Aquarius Men
You will really need to accept that your Aquarius man is a liar. That said, you should make it known that you know he is a liar. In reply to his lying assertions reply “oh sure” and smile also “pull the other one it has bells on it”.
How do You Stop an Aquarius Man from Telling Lies
The only way you’ll ever stop an Aquarius man from telling lies is if you start the way you want to proceed from the beginning of your relationship or at the commencement of another start. Even then, the Aquarius man will only be able to tell the truth if he feels comfortable in the relationship with you and that you are not a judgemental type.
Yep, Aquarius men lie more than other men. I'm getting me one of your lie detectors and using it very soon. Shall I let you know how it works?
ReplyDeletethey are extremely liars! Do not trust anything... and do not care if you choose to keep the relationship
ReplyDeletethey are all extreme liars. I think it's their fear of being judged and desire to seem "smart and strong" no matter what. they also lie so they don't hurt feelings. they're lazy, so they lie. they rather cheat and lie about it than to not cheater or even tell the truth about it at the least. they'll never tell the truth until you can prove to them you know it already. this happened to me with three different aquarius'. yup, they suck.
ReplyDeleteWe only lie to spare people's feelings or because we don't want to deal with a whiner, basically people who can't handle the truth, which no doubt some people here fall under that category. If you're not smart enough to ask an aquarius if they're lying, it's no wonder ya hate us. Most of us will admit that we're lying if you just ask. I'm a male aquarius and I usually say something sarcastically to let a female know I really mean no.
ReplyDeletehi aquarius man and all the others who have posted. Yes, aquarius men like their freedom and space...blah blah blah! LYING DOES NOT SPARE ANYONE'S FEELINGS. SWEEPING IT UNDER THE RUG DOES NOT MEAN U GOT RID OF IT. THAT IS BEING SUPERFICIAL!!! I COMMEND THOSE AQUA MEN WHO HAVE BEEN IN LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS... I DATED ONE FOR 8 YEARS BUT MY LORD NEEDED HIM MORE. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE!!!!! I MISS HIM!!! I RECENTLY GOT MARRIED TO ONE. BOY, AM I GOING THROUGH CONFUSION! MY CURRENT AQUARIUS HUSBAND IS NICE AND ALL THAT BUT HE LIES AND CHEATS!!! HE HAS ALL THE FREEDOM BUT I CAN'T TRUST HIM BECAUSE EVERY TIME I TURN AROUND HE IS HITTING ON A NEW GAL, IN THE MEANTIME, STILL COMMUNICATES WITH HIS "EX" AND PROMISING MARRIAGE. HE SPENDS THREE QUARTER OF HIS DAY TEXTING, ON SOCIAL NETWORKS LIKE FACEBOOK, TAGGED, AND MY SPACE. HE LIES TO ALL THESE WOMEN AND PROMISES HEAVEN AND EARTH TO THEM. I KNOW OF AT LEAST SIX WOMEN HE HAS CHEATED WITH FROM WHEN WE GOT MARRIED. I AM SURE IT WAS WORSE WHEN WE WERE DATING BUT I BLINDLY TRUSTED HIM THEN. ON 8/24/2011, ON MY BIRTHDAY, I HAD GONE TO WORK OUT OF TOWN FOR 2 DAYS AND WHEN I GOT HOME, I FOUND A LINGERIE TUCKED UNDER MY LIVING ROOM COUCH. HE TEXTED THE GIRL ABOUT IT AND PROMISED TO BRING IT TO HER WHEN THEY MEET. I CALLED HER AND SHE SAID SHE KNEW SOMETHING WAS NOT TRUE ABOUT MY HUSBAND BECAUSE SHE DID NOT KNOW HE WAS MARRIED. I THREW A PARTY FOR HIM ON HIS BIRTHDAY, 1/28/12, HE THANKED ALL HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND NOT A SPECIAL THANKS FOR ME. HE PUT THE PICS ON FACEBOOK BUT DID NOT INCLUDE MINE. WHEN THE "EX" ASKED WHY HE DID NOT TELL HER ABOUT THE PARTY, HE LIED IT WAS A SURPRISE PARTY BY HIS FRIENDS. SHE IS PRESSURING HIM TO MARRY HER. HIS RESPONDS TO HER WAS, THEY SHOULD 1ST HAVE A BABY BUT SHE TOLD HIM SHE CAN'T HAVE A BABY WITHOUT COMMITMENT. BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED, WE DISCUSSED HAVING A BABY BY END OF 2012 BUT TWO DAYS AFTER WE GOT MARRIED, HE TOLD ME WE SHOULD WAIT TWO YEARS BEFORE WE START HAVING A BABY. I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING TO WARRANT SUCH DISRESPECT, LIES, AND CHEATING. HE WONDERS WHY I DO NOT TRUST HIM WHEN HE GOES OUT. AS AQUARIANS, YOU SHOULD ALSO UNDERSTAND THE SAME BLOOD THAT RUNS THROUGH VEINS RUNS THROUGH OTHERS' VEINS TOO. NOW, I JUST DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT WHAT HE DOES. I SEE HIM AS HEARTLESS, FILTHY, TWO-FACED PATHOLOGICAL LIAR, EGO-CENTRIC, SELF-ABSORBED MISTAKE FOR A MAN.
DeleteI think Aquarians like many lie ..:)
DeleteI've been with my partner for 21 years and must say if i ever talk on the subject of love they even now tell you half the truth ,not in a bad way, they know what you want to hear but they don't tell you ..as in there eyes you are trying to manipulate what they are to say ...they do lie but they don't ..
wow. hmm id say they pretty much lie.. was with/ or was talking to an aquarius/pisces.. def sure that he lied about everything...even his age.. was saddd. sooo good looking but terrible liar!! sleeps with way to many partners.. very wishy washy every minute. very tiring to deal with!!!
ReplyDeleteI must say my exirence with an Aquarius man was bitter sweet. 90% of the time we got along quite well. Sex was great, we laughed a lot and open communication so I thaught. We dated for 2 years we I thought it was just us. I recently questioned him about a picture and he replied that it was just someone he'd been seeing for the past 10 years. She lives in another state and so the trips he was going on was to see her and their kids ???
ReplyDeleteHe is the one that chased me for months and I gave in. Now heartboken that he has waited all this time to inform me of the significant other. He always said he was a single man, I had keys to his house and when in and out as I pleased. I called it quits. Unfortuneately we work together on only conversate with him regard work. He continues to try to talk to me and can't understand why I'm distant. Well let's see he lied for 2 years, he wasted my time and broke my heart.
I went through the same thing as far as being with him for a while and then I asked if he ever dated a black woman such as myself and his reply was yes and we are seeing each other now and are in love - wow! And this was while eating the dinner I fixed him ! what an ass!
DeleteI got a story that he has a woman who he used to have a relationship for 19 years still living in his house. I call that a wife, not someone he used to have a relationship with.
DeleteI just dumped one tonight because of his lies and he looked me straight in the eye and said "I never lied to you." I felt like bashing him in the face! What a loser! Don't waste your time with these men. They are very weak individuals who can't tell the difference between truth and fiction. They will tell you how much they care about you, yada, yada, yada, and you'll find out it's all just one big lie. They could care less about you or your feelings.
DeleteI unexpectedly met my Aquaman on a warm July night.His approach was quite simple and a tad bit lame.lol I was eating an ice cream bar and he asked can he have a bite? Me feeling especially looney that night took him up on his request, quite naturally I suprised him when I gave him the dessert. Instead of biting he broke off a piece and said Im not gonna bite your ice cream cause we haven't shared our first kiss yet, I want to savor your lips. Looking at this man he couldn't have been no older than 21, ( he actually was 22), I made the determination that I wanted to have a summer fling with him. However, once I got to know him, I fell in love with him. Gorgeous face, fantastic body, beautiful mind and he was lovey dovey in public made me fall head over heels for him. He is a true aquarius, when they first meet you and starting to get to know you he doted on me we spent every second together, just the perfect guy. But after three months things started to fall apart. He disappeared on me for two weeks and while away he told me he was with his mother. I became accustomed to his need for space and allowed him to roam. He go away and come back, but each time his attitude towards me had changed. Immediately, I knew it was another woman, but he accused me of being insecure and having trust issues. Yet, my female intiution knew he had another. We stopped having sex, and when i reached out to him he turned me down always claiming he was too tired or just wasnt in the mood. I shouldve left that day, but my heart was in control and my mind had no say. I loved him deeply, so deep that it caused me to be blind. Eventually, I found out he had another woman, I confronted him but he walked away. Two days later he texted me saying he was sorry for not being honest and that I deserve the truth. He also said he wasnt ready for me to leave his life. I swear thats what I needed to hear, but I cant deal with his sneakiness no more. Be careful when you give your heart to an aquaman you might not ever get it back.
ReplyDeleteBroken hearted Libra
Im a libra to and my situation is the same as yours lm so in luv wit a aquamam n have
Deletebeen for three yrs off n on at this time we r off again dont know wat todo brokenhearted as u but taken it all one day at a time
Hi, I am a Taurus woman. Aqua males are absolutely terrible: liars, cheaters, detached, and emotional bullies, as the Pisces girl above said. A married aqua man professed his undying love to me, a single woman, a year and a half ago, things were excellent for three months, and then he started lying or being unavailable. He said he was looking into divorcing his wife but then changed his mind because God says that divorce is a sin (did he not know that when he said he was looking to divorce his wife?). In bed he is mentally interesting but passionless and physically awkward, he cannot handle emotions unless they are his own histrionics. I think they are better as friends than as lovers, probably because they are in love with themselves only.
ReplyDeletePretty apt description of them I'd say.
DeleteI am a Taurus and I totally agree...experienced the same thing. Dated an aquarius for almost 2 years, found out he was living with a woman for 6 (we don't live in the same state) and he convinced HER that I was stalking him all the while he was professing his love for me. Needless to say she believed him (either she is comfortable with the lies or just that dilutional) and she is still with him. The are worthless individuals....
Deleteits true because taurus don't care and satfish and very clever to hide of any aqua is not stupid! you can't give what aqua want so aqua can do what he like like you do!
DeleteI've been with my Aquarius partner for 18 years ..he loves his space ,freedom whatever it's called i love mine too ,i will say they need someone who has her/his own life going on ,they need strong partners !
ReplyDeleteMainly i would say they need a partner who is a friend ..yep ,he lies in a way that basically misses out the truth in areas ..luckily neither really want marriage we have 2 fantastic kids ..i say ,as you get older you need a companion who is there for you and vice versa ,and not so much the romance and the arguments of why you don't say they love you 24/7 ,they show love so much just in different ways..
He lied over stupid things that didn't even matter...compulsive!
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I dated one for years until I found out he married a girl in another state. She thinks getting pregnant will keep him faithful. No it won't because the dirt bag keeps trying to see me. When you find out you're with a loser you run for the hills.
ReplyDeleteThis is just crazy. Ive been with two aquas and only one showed these qualities. The first was a class a aqua... But the second does not show the negative qualities. He is more secretive, but he doesnt lie or fib, and he expresses himself very well. Does this mean he is a one of a kind... or is he playing me???
ReplyDeleteplaying you
ReplyDeleteI have found Aquarians to be opposite to what astrological qualities deem them to possess. That is to say to me they are VERY predictable and boring and not at all inventive, original and humanitarian. Their aloofness is soooooo boring, their skating around the truth means they're nearly always in a state of denial = boring. The funny and perhaps most embarrassing thing I have found is in their attempt (yawn) to be SO different from everyone is SO OBVIOUS! Consequently, boring, boring, BORING. Being around these highly strung, self-centred, so called individuals are like being in the company of a hologram, you can see it, but yet you can't. The main thing is though - you can see right through it. Move aside and gimme folk with cultivated, honest character with substance! Aquarians - all of them - really do need to get over themselves and take a hint. Us non-Aquarians are thinking of other stuff when you take your precious time to talk us.... we really are. Float far away........ puff!
ReplyDeleteAmen to everything u said. Love it and SO true.
DeleteReading these post all I can say is WOW!! I've been talking to this aqua man for about a year now. I'm a Gemini woman and our connection with one another was one I felt no one could ever come between. At first he swept me off my feet and we quickly became best friends. We were together 24/7 and I had no doubt he was the one for me. We could just sit and talk about anything and it never would get boring. If I needed anything, he never hesitated to help or just lend a shoulder for me to cry on. I noticed it was hard for him to open up to me about his personal life, but slowly started opening up to me as time progresses. Suddenly, he started pulling away from me and became quite distant. If I would come at him about other women he would say it's nothing like I'm thinking and always made it as if I'm having a bad day and taking it out on him. Me being emotional about the situation made him very uncomfortable, and he would run away whenever I made him feel cornered. He always leaves his phone around me and I never felt the urge to go through it because that's how much I trusted and believed in him, but I couldn't hold out any longer. I went through his phone (BIG MISTAKE)!! Not only is he talking and having intercourse with me, he's taking and having intercourse with numerous women also. Everything he says to me, he's saying the exact same things to them. It was numerous text asking him why was he changing on them all of a sudden and what did they do wrong. So obviously he does this to everyone he comes in contact with. Makes them feel special and once they get to close he runs away without an explanation. Only difference with me is I had been in the dark for a whole year and most of these females were recent. I'll be lying if I said I am not heart broken because I am. Once we talked he told me the reason he lied is because he knew if he told me certain things it would hurt me and he never wanted me to hurt and that he always will see me as his friend and never wants that to change. I don't call him or text anymore but I'm sure it doesn't even phase him because of all the other females he has. It hurts like hell but all I can do is move on and take this as a lesson learned. I WILL NEVER TALK TO ANOTHER AQUARIUS!!
ReplyDeleteI am deeply in love with an Aquarius man for five years, we're talking about getting married. yea, sounds a little crazy especially after reading the rest. Let me say this first - I love him. I can list all the stuff I love about him, what he does for me, enjoy about him and we would need another webpage. He is detached which I like cuz I am aloof and freedomloving(Im a December Cappy) From day one, he felt like my soulmate. We shared everthing we could with each other, accepted each other's pasts. Then it happened ..One BIG lie in the midst of a lot of truths. Since then, I have experienced his lies, some are little, some are big. I hear him rattle off a lie so quick, when he doesn't want to deal with something. And he's not a good liar, any perceptive, intuitive person can pick up his lie. My aquarian soulmate lies to avoid responsibility, and to control what he thinks he can control, and to meet his own personal needs whatever way he can. They need freedom to create the world they want with the words they choose to use - whether truthful or not. And Aquarian men like Drama. It gives them the opportunity to use their imagination and create those "unreal reality" shows of life. I believe my Aquarian emotionally immature and a manipulative visionary. There have been times when I thought he was lying and learned that he was telling the truth. And I am happy for those times. But I still get those "feelings". And unfortunately, everytime I've actively looked for something, I have always found something that contradicts what he told me. I believe Aquarian men have Predictable Unpredictability. And like someone said earlier, it gets boring. They are not as "unique" as the charts describe them. After a few rounds with them, you pretty much can figure them out. While they can be beautifully artistic and eclectic, they rely heavily on the energy from others to help stimulate their world. they lie to themselves that they are bored by the other person, when in fact, they are bored with themselves and they need someone to bring something NEW to them, one reason why many may struggle to be monogomous. Sad to say, they can achieve TRUE freedom through living an honest and open life, allowing those in who truly appreciate honest and freedom. I am not sure how me and my Aqua man will end up but I guess I am hoping he will learn this life lesson with me. And then I can reap the benefits of this beautiful creature ... sounds self-serving ..much like an Aquarius ... doesn't it? LOL
DeleteWell I made the mistake of turning down an aquarian man who talked about us having children and was going to move country, the week after he is with another woman.
ReplyDeleteI dont think they do anything to be horrible, but they do give the impression they are doing everybody else a favour when most of us would prefer for them to just be themselves and be happy instead of sneaking about etc maybe they do get happiness from that..who knows?
I would say you need a strong intuition and to love them more than you do yourself and your own relationship needs, you need to want to be with them more than your ideal relationship.
I dont mind people having different partners but what bothered me is when one of my aquarian friends confessed to me that he thought he might had an STD from sleeping with so many women, I asked if he was going to the doctors about it or if he had told any of the girls he is sleeping with. He got angry and said that it was probably nothing, then he started sleeping with even more girls. He said that sex to him is just another nice thing to do with friends, they dont get the whole pairing up thing i dont think, aquarians are suited to orgies? who kmows lol
Well I don`t think it`s a good thing to take time wether so freely or so serious... both for me are bullshit. If you really love him good for you... it takes a lot of love to put up with facts like those..... good luck.
ReplyDeleteI've been with my aqua man for almost 2 yrs... N the comment on here do not describe my aqua man at all except for the lies... My aqua man did some bad things in the past n broke my heart... He lied about being with ex when we first start getting serious but he dont even think about cheatin on me... Yes he loves his freedom but when he's outside he always calling checking up on me or telling me he loves me... He dont lie to me no more every since the situtation with ex... But i love my aqua man n wouldn't change him for nothing in this world... I feel if a Aquarian man loves you then he wont do nothing to hurt you... By the way im a Oct Scorpio...
ReplyDeleteWOW!!!!! Wow, wow, wow is all I can say. I can really say that after reading all these posts, I feel so much better knowing that the roller coaster I just went through with this aquarius man is just normal to them, and I can stop beating myself up of why he just dropped me off the face of the earth as me and him never even existed. I have been trying for the past week, wondering what the hell I did to lose all contact with him completely.Not even a goodbye, just a complete delete!!!
ReplyDeleteHe is from another country, and he had initially contacted me on yep, you guessed it, facebook. Now get this kicker pick-up line, that we think alike and even went as far as calling me his "soul sister". Ok, I guess from my posts and whatnot, anyways, I bought into it and really thought that that was going to be the end of it. Well, the messages start appearing everyday, ok, I'm responding, we're going back and forth, then it's onto texting daily, and when I mean daily like every hour. The funny thing is I was visiting family for the holiday, and was just nursing myself peacefully back from a previous break-up.
So, we get closer, onto Skype, he tells me he cares for me deeply, shares his sexual desires with me, etc etc. We were planning on me visiting the country, getting the whole trip planned and everything. I would stay with him, we were going to all these places, on and on. I was mentally in the country with him and all. Our conversations were so smooth, me being an aries I thought this was a great match for me, so I was really excited about the ways things were going.
Well, I do admit admit I lied about my age, foolish on my part,and he opened up to me a bit, told me he was on anti-depressants. I was shocked, but, it never changed anything. We continued on. Well, one night we're texting, and he does a search for my name online and found out that I had something in my past that I really had forgot about, and he questioned me about my age, I told him the real age then, and then he sends me the link to the website. I explained to him the circumstances, and that it was a horrible experience, and that's why I never brought it up, I had actually forgotten about it, as a matter of fact, everyone in my life now knows of this incident and it doesn't bother them. I no way meant to intentionally harm him by not telling him, I just chose to forget about it.
He tells me he's not judging me, and then 5 minutes later I'm blocked, deleted from FB and messenger. I shared so much with this man, everyday telling him deep thoughts and opening up to him, and really believed I actually meant something to him. I put so much trust in this man and nothing, no explanation, no goodbye, ZERO!
I sent him a few emails, just asking for an explanation, anything, and I get no response. I am truly truly in such shock over his actions. I'm an aries, and I can usually handle things, but, wow, I mean what the hell??
Does this seem like typical aquarian behavior to anyone out there? My sister is aquarius, I have one friend that's aquarius, and we get along amazing. But, lemme tell you, if this is any indication of how how aquarians act in relationships, etc, I am staying far far away, I'll go look for a sag or leo.
I have never been so confused in my life, this has been the coldest, most cruel thing anyone has ever done to me. I keep blaming myself, but I see that it is typical behavior? Will Aquarians do this, just so coldly? Do they come back after you ask them for forgiveness, or an explanation?? I'm stumped.
Hiii sorry for someone getting back to you so late, but I hope you feel better about your situation by now. Time heals, so hopefully you're in a better place emotionally and you've learned from it all.
DeleteBut Coming from a Person who dealt with a few Aquarius Males; I have Close Aquarius Guy friends and family members, I have dated a few (without sex), and FELL DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH ONE. I’ve been observing them watching the way they move. (This message is so Deep; I had to chop it up into 4 parts)
PART 1.
Yes! This is ALL Typical Aquarius Male Nature. Immature Aquarius males are very passive aggressive. When they're really upset with you they won’t tell you, instead they'll do something to hurt you indirectly. They know that it will hurt you but them getting what they want is far more important than your feelings. They like being mean, but internally they're ashamed of themselves and that’s why they lie so much. HE WILL SAY ANYTHING TO CONVINCE YOU THAT A PINK MARKER IS REALLY BLUE; and if a female really loves him, she'll want to trust & believe everything he says. In the end she'll get hurt repeatedly.
EVERY MALE AQUARIUS IS CHARMING AS HELL!!!! And they can also develop to be naturally manipulative. Some of the world’s Biggest Sociopaths /Criminals, I won’t doubt for a second are Aquarius Males bcz they have narcissistic traits, are natural born rebels, they can be so detached from emotion, and sometimes can have no empathy or guilt. When an opportunity presents itself, for them to get WHATEVER IT IS they want; best believe they will be on the hunt, and will flat leave anyone who isn’t up to speed or whom they consider weak. When they are hurt or annoyed they will forget all the good memories, or how good you were to them, and turn as COLD AS ICE!! Some Aquarius males turn cold just for fun; it all depends on the type of upraising the Aquarius had and who the person is that they’re being unkind to. They can become very MALICIOUS, if you are on their bad side; don’t ever underestimate what they could be plotting.
In my experience I became very scared of the Aquarius male I fell in love with bcz I knew that even if I got hurt I still loved him and he had so much power over my emotions. I was in so deep that I found myself uncontrollably smitten and submissive. I would be afraid and so sensitive to hurt his feelings or get on his bad side bcz I knew he would probably mistreat me. And he knew this had an effect on me and after a while he began taking advantage. I knew that this was depleting my confidence, so I had to figure out a way to escape on a “GOOD NOTE” just so I wouldn’t hurt anymore and he wouldn’t do anything to betray me.
Him cutting you off when he feels distrust or that you’re trying to get closer to him, is his natural love for being mysterious and his light switch, cold hearted, emotionally detached side. Many Aquariuses are Narcissistic; they are selfish when it comes to their own wants, even if it hurts feelings; especially with females. But some cant help themselves until real tragedy strikes; they come to their lowest moment in life and they actually want to start to change. Its sad that they live this way. I actually feel sorry for them bcz there are so many females they’ve dated that HATEEE them. Deep inside some really want to change, BUT if they feel they cant trust you or that you cant help them in anyway they will slowly start showing u distance, lie to your face, ignore you on purpose, become a bully, embarrass you or they might just cut you off completely in a unpredictable way.
PART 3.
DeleteTHERE IS ANOTHER SIDE TO THEM THOUGH, BUT DON’T BE FOOLED...
One thing I will say for sure is that when an Aquarius Male wholeheartedly cares for you he will show you. They make GREAT friends; that’s why most are so intrigued by them. You will feel like you’ve known him forever as if you fell in love with your best friend…
As for “PLATONIC FRIENDS” When they trust you they will show you their heart and how great they can be ... That is why it’s hard for friends to believe that Aquarius men have these Malicious traits because they love to add value to others ppl's lives and to be considered a great person. They need ppl to believe in them and to see their caring side. They crave it!!! They will give, and give and give… advice, exchange laughs, bring gifts, be protective, do favors, anything you name it. Sometimes it’s because they actually do care, other times it’s ALL to compensate for all the bad sh%$ they’ve done. It’s a part of how they convince themselves that they're not complete assholes, and they can forgive themselves lol. He can be very affectionate and supportive of those he loves (friends mostly they are closer to him than family) Sooo friends will always stand up for him; he’s oblivious and innocent in their eyes. They will never ever think that he is capable of such cruelty and that in reality he is very aware of how emotionally & mentally abusive he is...
All is good if your one of his Great Friends, But best believe you will see a WHOLE other side of him, if you date him... After a while an immature Aquarius will treat you completely opposite than the way he treats his friends or the way he treated you in the beginning; depends on what you allow. If they’re annoyed by you they become passive aggressive, sometimes for the smallest things and they will not express why, until they feel the need to. They want you to figure it out on your own, they love leaving you clueless. If they are deeply hurt by you, they will turn on you! They might sneakily make ppl believe that you’re something you're not; say you’re crazy and tell them to stay away from you (just so his friends will never know the truth or your side of the story)... And his friends will believe him... The Crazy Thing is, He’ll act this way even if he actually cares about the female, but how can you truly care about a person and be so selfish and crude?
PART 4.
DeleteADVICE TO ANYONE DEALING WITH AN AQUARIUS MALE!!!!!!!!
Consider this ... Analyze how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have to change others (That’s in General)
You can’t Protect or Help an Aquarius Man, they are way too stubborn (I shouldn’t even say “man” I should say boy; bcz "MOST" of them are lil boys) ... ITS VERY RARE THAT THEY WILL MATURE IN THEY’RE 20’s , THEY WILL WHEN THEYRE MUCH OLDER… SO if they give you any indication that they are not ready for a commitment... BELIEVE THEM!
HERE ARE YOU'RE OPTIONS, if you’ve fallen or are starting to fall in love with an Aquarius….
A) WAIT !!! STAY FRIENDS… In the meantime watch the way he moves from a distance & do WHATEVER YOU CAN to just stay friends… Build a stronger bond until the point where you KNOW that it would be hard for him to see himself without you in his life… All In hope that down the line when THE TIMING IS RIGHT ( The Point where HES REALLY READY TO GROW UP & HES CHANGED) that you will be together one day…
B) RUNNNNNNNN!!!!! Or you will SUFFER DEEPLY!!!
As you are Deciding Option A or B … From Reading all the comments, opinions, experiences above… Ask yourself; Are there any signs of him showing these red flags? Is this really someone that is worth all the trouble? Do I really think he’s ready to be fully committed and faithful to me? Is he really boyfriend material, marriage material, does he have traits of a good father figure? OR Am I in Love with the fantasy of how great he COULD be?
I can't thank you enough for writing these advice - it's as good as putting "Danger" signs for reckless, love-blinded people. I will take you advice and retain my cool, but the one i met is at least nice enough to not mislead me into a relationship. (I am his student, but it feels as though we're a lot closer than that.) geez, haha, can't deny that he's a nice person though.
DeleteLeo female here. My now EX-finace and I have known each other since 1987. Over 21 years he asked me out 3 serious times. 2 years after saying yes, idk with he was thinking. 1 breakout in 2 years, over a lie, unnecessary, and just continuos! I forgave, we agreed, he reneged, despite our agreement of getting back together, which ended our relationship, instantaneously. When I packed my stuff and drove back to GA from IL, he said I was wrong! Once busted he was 'just so matter of factly' about it and my feelings.
ReplyDeleteThe difference between me and him, I showed him, I KEEP MY WORD!
He and the others are why I don't give 2nd chances, anymore!
They are insensitive to others but play the good guy roll, secretive, manipulative, stubborn, illogical, apologetic, victims to their own actions, depression prone
selfish, and insecure!!! NOT POSITIVE LEADERS, but influential...
I was dating a guy who walked out of his marriage for so I thought- he lives back with his mum and he kept texting and ringing me saying he loved me and wanted to marry me- out of the blue he stopped texting and ringing me-
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