How to Keep Aquarius Man Interested | PART ONE

The Best Case Scenario: You Have Just Met Your Aquarius Man

Could be that you've just met an Aquarius man and you've found yourself on this website just out of a mild curiosity. You're thinking that this Aquarius man is pleasant enough but no big deal. You can't see yourself falling in love with him but a few dates, nothing serious, won't do any harm. HOLD THAT THOUGHT and mindset because things are going to change pretty radically and pretty soon.

The Most Likely Scenario: Your Aquarius Man Has Revealed His True Colors

More likely you've been through the stage outlined above, have fallen for your Aquarius man hook, line and sinker and he, who was at first seemingly on the same page, has turned over (started a new chapter or even a new book) and left you devastated. The first thing this group should do is read the comments left by numerous others who have/are experiencing the same with their Aquarius men. At least then you'll see you are not alone. You'll also see that you have nothing to lose and be ready to at least try some of the advice you'll find on this website.

For those of you in the first group, provided you take on board what we tell you and don't think you are somehow better equipped to deal with Aquarius man or more attractive to him than any of the others represented in the comments on this website: this is your lucky day!

A Useful Analysis of the Aquarius Man

Although this analysis is more relevant to the Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) who find themselves in a relationship with an Aquarius man - it is useful to the other signs to as it explains the problems you might face and (as the name of this site claims) offers "help with Aquarius men".

Aquarius Man in a Relationship is Like a Bubble Underwater 

Aquarius man is like a bubble under water . - not because he most likely, if given the opportunity, enjoys scuba-diving but because he is like a sphere containing Air living like a bubble underwater! He is fragile and any poor handling will have him burst and turn into many bubbles or flee upwards and break the surface to escape into the air. In fact, this latter behavior is what he is drawn to. So, how do you (the water in this analogy) keep the bubble in one and content within your body?

Caring for a Bubble Underwater | Caring for an Aquarius Man Relationship


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Bubbles are fragile so we need to keep them calm and give them space. We do not want to put the slightest bit of pressure on them, make waves or probe them. What we want to do is aim for them to engulf us and keep us safe within their center. It is only once we are in that place that we can have any security with the bubble. The first step towards this place is providing an invisible ceiling. This ceiling needs to adapt to move with the Aquarius man/bubble without him knowing. In a relationship this ceiling is built by understanding what keeps an Aquarius man happy and providing it. Aquarius needs intellectual stimulation, freedom, fun but most of all to know how lucky he is to have found you. He doesn't need a miserable, insecure nagger, a doormat, a bore, a loser or a gushy demonstrative romantic. In PART TWO we'll go into this further! Check back to read PART TWO as soon as it is published (we'll add a link here when it is...)