A friend of mine received an invitation to an ex- colleague's very lavish 60 birthday celebrations. She had shared no more than ten minutes talking to the 59 year old when she worked at the same place for about six months, but had since left the company. The rather ornate invitation had arrived in the post and, strangely she thought, it was addressed to her only with no mention of a plus one. She didn’t go but why was she unexpectedly invited?
I’m not just a pretty face nor just Astrologer Number 4 on the HELP with Men! Team but a detective too and I could see smoke… and you know what they say, “there is no smoke without fire”. I went into detective mode.
Coincidence and Likely Stories
It wasn’t long before I detected an Aquarius man behind the scenes. It turned out, to cut a story short and get to the juicy bit, that the husband of the birthday woman had a friend who once had a relationship with my friend and he was behind the unexpected invitation. As an Astrologer with almost thirty years’ experience was I surprised by this behaviour by an Aquarius man? Not at all.
Falling Out of the Aquarius Man's Water Carrier
The image that comes to my mind when I think about this aspect of Aquarius men is of the water the carry and spill. We can see that water as their relationships – the friends, family, acquaintances and colleagues which are all so important to the Aquarius man – only circumstances let any get away and only death allows the person to be completely separated (in this life anyway). Typically where ever you go with an Aquarius man – no matter how far outside of his comfort zone – he’ll bump into someone from his past. He won’t have seen them for twenty years but the rapport will sound like they’ve been corresponding all that time… of course, they haven’t.
Getting Back On Board or Being Scooped Up by Aquarius Man
Part of the water which escapes will signify romantic attachments and relationships. Unless the separation was completely acrimonious on both sides – and it rarely is on the side of the Aquarius man – there is always the chance of getting back together. After all, the Aquarius man will end a relationship because it is too good and in danger of making him powerless and agree to anything. He rarely gives into this side of his character. He likes to be the sexual dominant but can sometimes enjoy his wildest dreams as he lies back and experiences the delights of a partner who wishes to and can leave him with exquisite memories. If this reminds you of your relationship with an Aquarius man there is every chance he’ll return… but it might takes years.
Notes on an Aquarius Man Reunion
Can you hurry the process? Indeed make the most of coincidences but don’t force it. See yourself as some of that spilt water which is running by again as he stoops to fill up his water carrier. Better still see yourself as some water he finds so attractive he has to come back and recapture you – the latter is far more fun. Never sit around and pine – it’ll make you ugly and clinginess is unattractive to all men but especially Aquarius. Live your life, be successful, have fun, collect possessions and real estate and perhaps you’ll add him to your collection sometime in the future. Follow this plan and you’ll ensure you have a life and you might meet somebody even better while you’re at it. In such circumstances you’ll be a bubbly pool or an inaccessible water-fall.
Please leave a comment below if you have had an experience like that mentioned in the article above or if you have allowed an Aquarius man back into your life. Please share to support men and women in a similar situation with an Aquarius man.
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My first significant relationship was with an Aquarius man. I am a Sagittarius woman and we had a wonderful relationship in many ways. We were passionate and engaged with each other. We had amazing deep conversations and heated debates. We played with each other and enjoyed our youth together.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately his brooding and jealous ways caused me to end the relationship. Fifteen years later he contacted me. He claimed to have wished for our reunion since the day I left, but would not contact me again until he was sure he could offer all I deserved.
He is everything he ever was but with a maturity that makes me feel so amazingly comfortable with him. Now our intimacy is out of this world, our conversations hours long and fantastic, and our quiet times are filled with the comfort of each other.
Aquarius men age like wine. My life will never be the same... ;-)
I'm a Sagittarius woman too and yes i got involved with a Aquarius man too. We got along in everything. But we stop talking and now i kinda miss him
DeleteSome Aquarius men stink like bad cheese and the sort which does not go with wine either. The woman who left the comment above seems to be away with the fairies and should update when her Aquarius man reverts to type. My advice is to stay away from Aquarius men as they are far too much trouble, too selfish and don't earn much as other men and female bosses think they are next to useless.
ReplyDeleteYou know what? ANONYMOUS JAN 30 2012 has hit the nail right on the head! Aquarius men are players but, for their own sakes, they need to stop playing with us. Yes, they like to return but eventually they will have nobody to return to as we'll all see the light (that they are next to useless), get with someone far, far better or decide we'd rather be on our own.
DeleteI'm so confused, I'm a saggitarius woman, head over heals with my useless aqau, the personality and affection is there but the rest isn't. I question if my love is enough to carry this relationship. I've never loved anyone but him but slowly his lying and secretive side is coming though and I feel helplessly hoepleesly in love yet so miserable. Girls got it bad. Dam you aqua
DeleteI agree most aquarius are sneaky selfish and like to play the victum to get what they want. They can't commit to one woman until thier old ass can't play around anymore and they are secretive till no end because they are always sleeping around with at least 4 women , ugggh big babies.....lol worst relationship ever, can you tell hahaha
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely correct !
DeleteRun like hell dated an Aquarius man of and on for four years and they think they can leave for months and resume where they left off like trick him this time he tried twice to see me wanted me to go clubbing o said no thank u have fun! Then he went off got very disrespectful. They get upset when things dnt go there way I'm so proud of myself and over that cheater.
DeleteMe and my young aqua man left off on bad blood, Im pretty sure he's not coming back xD
ReplyDeleteMe- Cancer sun, leo moon, leo ascendant, venus in gemini, mars in gemini, aquarius descendant
him- Aqua Sun, cancer moon, cancer ascendant, venus in aries, mars in cancer, Capricorn descendant
I was involved with an Aquarius long ago. I'm a Cancer/Moon in Aquarius. He displayed all the typical behavior. Distant,cold,flaky,unemotional and would disappear for days. I was always wondering if he was going to end it, as it always seemed that way. He moved away and said it was better if we remained friends. I agreed to that and kept in touch for a couple of years. He would invite me to visit but when the time would come he would flake out. Later he began to see someone and stopped all correspondence. It was not an easy break up for me, although I did desire to be friends as I thought the connection between us was unique and something I had not experienced before. One day, years later I receive a message from him. I was surprised but I did not respond. He continued to send messages until one day I replied. We talked a couple of times. However, I had a suspicion he wanted to start where we left off and I was not willing as I knew his intention was nothing more that a hook up. He said he wanted to see me and although my guard was up and I was vague about confirming or even trusting that he wouldn't flake out, I left the possibility open. I told him I would call him to let him know, when I did call he hung up on me. I thought maybe a bad connection. I sent him a message and he never replied. So, I figured it was just a game. A game I was not willing to play and I was not about to get tangled with his BS again. I have left it and I am now even more negative toward him and will not allow him to treat me how he did before. A few months later I get a message from him saying he just wanted to say hello and see how I was doing. I thought, wow, he writes as if nothing, he never even mentioned the unanswered call or message, no explanation and very typical of him. I just roll my eyes. Who does he think he is? Did he really think he could walk back into my life and take the same place he was in years ago? I wonder, if now that I am ignoring him and I never did before, that it has sparked a new interest in me? Now that I am unattainable to him, he wants to be friends? Again, I just roll my eyes!
ReplyDeleteI can completely understand...and GOOD for u gal ! don't give in.
DeleteReading all these things about the Aqua men and their ' hot n cold' BS really pisses me off.
I had a 2 yr relationship with this aqua guy many yrs back..i was 21 he was 29...and he always strung me around.. I was too naive to understand how selfishly he played with my emotions..
I fell hard for him...and then later after 2 years.. i heard from someone ELSE that he had been married once..and then divorced..
to top it up..whn i confronted him..he just said Oh I wanted to tell u, but I knew u wud react like this so i didnt !!!
This hit me like a truck..the way he said it..the way he never even offered an explanation..no apologies.. I told him it was all over.
But it left me heartbroken..
eventually i found a really sweet boy and we r married now..but reached the typical ho-hum stage...
and now this aqua dude ..out of nowhere contacts me after 8 yrs..I no longer carry the grudge and somehow I always thot we cud have been gr8 friends..so I replied..
but now he's doing that shit again...messging me and then going off mim-conversation n all..
the real thing I wonder is WHY do aqua men get gals who adore them ? they sure as hell dont deserve any
Dam straight girl / I don't get it either. I'm smart, intelligent, well read and on the a-list for hot BUT who rings my bell? The one A-hole that doesn't give a shiit about me.
DeleteI am a sagittarius female and had a great relationship with a male aquarius. Yes they are spoiled and need lots of attention. Almost smothering and that's what drove us apart. I felt it was selfish on his part. But he was really good to me. He spoiled me. so maybe I was selfish. He was the type to wine and dine me, rub my feet when tired, plan trips and outtings when I was busy with work or school. In a different time this would have been my dream man. I am just consumed with my own agenda.
ReplyDeleteI miss my aqua, but I am SO afraid he'll come back one day. Even more, I am afraid I will always be waiting.
ReplyDeletethats the scariest thing,I understand completly,I dont want to be with him its a torture but somewhere deep inside I am still waiting...
DeleteI feel the exact same way.
DeleteI don't know what's worse... The emotional rollercoaster when they're around or the emptiness and wonder when they're not...
Reply to Mar 16 2012, i am so missin mines as well, and i agree am afraid that i will be waiting for the rest of my live. He was the very best thing that i ever had. At least for the first few mths we started out..things just changed after. The cold and hot came in..among other mood swings . But i gave him my heart and i guess am waiting for it back.
ReplyDeleteThanks for replying... It's been a month now.. and for the first time, I feel ok. I don't want anything to do with him. If he ever comes back, I will treat him exactly like he treated me. I will ignore him. I don't think he's coming back though. His loss completely. I am a great catch and I am SO thankful that I am able to FINALLY move past this! Good luck to you sweetie.
DeleteBeen there done that with an Aquarius male, move on to someone who will love you uncondtionally and not play games with your heart and mind!
DeleteIma sagitarius women and I dated an aqua man for 3months..in the beginning everything was GREAT.when we first started talking I wanted to get to know him more n take things slow but two weeks later he wanted to take things to the next level n I didnt really wanna rush things...so he agreed but after awhile he wanted b n a relationship so like a dumbass I said okay..well after almost a month of dating he was saying how much he was n love with me n I was totally caught off gaurd n thought this dude cant b serious..but anyways n the relationship he was CONTROLING n wanted things his way n he would get really JEALOUS...n he would always play the victim n situations..n he would also HIDE things from...so I knew he was CHEATING..so I was done with the bullshit n cried to many times over him..so I LEFT HIM! But my whole point is DONT trust them or fall n love cuz u will get HEARTBROKEN!
ReplyDeleteyezz your rite an im a saggi female also lol diz iz krazy
DeleteStay as far away as you can! Run away! They will take everything you have, give nothing and expect more and more. I know from experience. If you are going to stay friends be as detached as they are, don't fall in love.
DeleteI need help with my Aqua man. I am a Sag and I love him. I am in the middle of getting a legal separation from my Scop man and then a divorce in 6 months. Well my Aqua man gets so jealous and thinks because i have to have dealings with my future x and my Aqua man insist that i'm still in love with him. And I'm not. How do i prove to my Aqua man that I love him and not my x thats why i'm getting separated and then a divorce.
ReplyDeleteHonestly he will run as soon as your done with your ex and start showing how committed you are to him because at this instance he fears losing you and these men don't like competition.... my experience
DeleteSTAY with your husband please. U are better trust me those aqua men will lie bad they just care ant them they present themselves so truthfully to u
DeleteAqua men are not to be trusted dump him before he does u and he is and will already in the works let that aqua go you gonna have nothing but heartache lies absence disappearing.
Yes, these ladies are soooo right! Stay with your husband. I was in your same exact situation. Was married for 10 years to my Taurus husband, an Aqua from my past (actually an elementary school friend) contacted me on Facebook. At first he was just very friendly and as time went by he got more flirty and I began to develop feelings for him. To make a long story short, I was intimate with him on a couple occassions and everything was so perfect then after about a month he started acting very cold, distant, never called or texted, and wondered what the heck??!! He had told me on several occassions that he loved me and I never said it back because I felt that it was way too soon to say that. Not sure if he really meant it or was trying to get the nookie, but it felt real and genuine. They are good with pretending to care for you........then they want nothing to do with you for no apparent reason. And when u ask them about it they have every excuse in the book. I eventually got sooo tired of the games he would play I had to give him a taste of his own medicine so I ignored his ass for a week and sure enough......he calls... I gnore it... then texts .......He asks I want to know where we stand.......I ignore it till the next day and he texts again......why haven't you asnwered me? I just sent him a text sayin been busy and that's it. I don't think he likes his game being played on him, bastard deserved it! So next day I gave him a piece of my mind and of course he wants to turn everything around on me saying that i don't think logically. Ha! Wow buddy! I don't think its me.....but you! I am a Libra and since he was my friend since grade school, I figure since we know eachothers background and we are suppossed to be compatible that everything would be cool.......I really thougt he could have been the one but was I dead wrong!! The sex was amazing yes, but definitely not worth putting up with that kinda bullshit and being treated like a stranger, if not worse sometimes.........so please stay away from him........HE WILL ONLY BREAK YOUR HEART and make you look like the bad one cause that's what they do. No matter how many times he tries to come back in your life, stay strong and don't give in. YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID!! TRUST ME!!! Definitely a lesson learned!!!!
DeleteLIARS.......RUDE.....SELFISH.......CONCIETED.....JUST UN CARING. DONE WITH HIM.
ReplyDeleteIt will always be a power struggle. With them.
ReplyDeleteSo I would really apreciate help or explanation from some aquarius here,people please:)
ReplyDeleteI am a double scorpio and I met double aquarius maybe 7 months ago,he wanted to be with me and after some time I agreed-then I think he started to lose interest in me...maybe I was just a dare to him. That was the first man I slept with and even if he sometimes said some stupid and weird things to me that hurt me, I ignored it because I wanted for that relationship to work.I am a little horoscope freak so when I met him I searched everything about aquarius and because I saw that they love their freedom I didn't call him often or ask him to commit,which was pretty hard for me(clingy scorpio), but I was ready for everything in order for him to stay...But that so called relationship was far far far from being nice and sweet and because of his disappearing and coming back I got a lil bit tired.
We didn't see or talk to each other for a month and he just appeard at my dor at 1 am asking me to be with him again- I said no,but it was so obvious that I am in love with him and I know that he was aware of it ...even if I acted cold. Then he told me to think about it and to call him,then he left.After a few days I saw him with another girl,then with another and so on(he lives just across the street)...
2 months after that, he called me and asked to come over-" If you don't hate me"(his words). I was a little drunk so I let him,but even If I sad no,he would come,he doesn't care about rules or anything when he wants something. Just when I totally forgot about him and got better-here he comes with a smile like nothing happend. Just a knock on the dor and "I just came to kiss you" (so much confidence don't you think?). I gave in, we kissed and he asked me again to be with him I said no and told him I saw him with his girlfriend, he just smiled o.O In all that talk he found out that my reason for not wanting to be with him is because I'm tired of being hurt by him-and he was suprised about that(what is weird about that,its so obvious, who wouldn't be hurt??) I asked him why did he came back after so much time and he just said "Life is strange".A few times before that night, he apologized to me for doing those things- " I know that you're a good girl "...but even with that being said he kept coming back and messing with my heart. He kissed me in the end said that he'll come tomorow and left...and ofc he didn't come,that was a week ago...SO PLEASE TELL ME WHY IS HE DOING THIS,IS THIS JUST FUN FOR HIM TO TORTURE ME,TO SEE IF HE CAN GET ME BACK?WHY ISN'T HE PERSISTENT IF HE WANTS ME,HE COMES, ASKS AND GOES,THEN COME AGAIN AFTER A FEW MONTHS?
He once told me that he kept asking some girl to be with him after they split up because she cheated on him and he wanted to take revenge,but I never did such thing, I was always good to him and he knows it...so i think that's not the reason?...I know that we're not god for each other, when we were together most of the time when he came to my place, he just seat quietly or fall asleep,when I ask him something he just answers something weird or tell me that is a stupid question(so If he was so bored why did he kept coming back?) He just sits there and doesn't talk to me at all,which is strange because aquarius are outgoing and talkative...
SO PLEASE JUST TELL ME IF YOU HAVE A CLUE WHY IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS,PLEASE:((
I feel so much lighter after this being said,even if there is no answers:)
Dear friend,
DeleteFirst of all, it's good to have shared your experience...at least girls feel relived by doing so :-)
Am no psychologist, but let's forget about horoscopes for one minute.
That guy is not worthy of your love and you should not allow him to play with your feelings and mind. I really don't want you to feel bad but you are just an option for him when he is in need of affection...by giving you the silence treatment , then afterwards coming back..then again disappearing, it's obvious his intentions are not good n he's making you vulnerable and he wants to have an emotional control over you. The earlier you understand this, the better.
Now let's go to horoscope. I myself have dated an aqua guy for 1 year... they absolutely love their freedom etc...but what about you? A love relationship is about 2 people who are willing to make amendmends, where required, for each other out of love/care. You should not wait for somebody who thinks that he should be the one to be understood, given what he wants, appreciated for who he is bla bla if he's NOT ready to do the same for you.
My dear, life is beautiful..Njoy it, I guarantee that you'll meet nicer people and please please, have patience n stop playing the victim..it's not attractive. Concentrate on the things you loved doing before you met him. With time, u'll realise that your life is much better without him.
Take care
^ You sound like you could be an Aries, Gemini or Aqua? Maybe Leo :)
DeleteI have dated an Aquarius man and I can honestly tell ya’ll that now I have my own little love story to always look back at when I want too. I’m a 23 year old Capricorn woman and he is a 29 year old Aquarius man. That man came into my life and changed everything. He drives me up the wall but I still find myself waiting for him to come back. I understand that they might be cheaters but they are very loyal in regards of never truly leaving. I have no reason to ever suspect mine cheated but if he did I know it was not coming from a disrespectful place but more of a confused state of mind. They are very honest about saying they love you and if they love you then they will never let go. In fact, they have no problem being friends with a woman they love. They will be there at your wedding and could be in a relationship their selves with another woman in their hearts. If they truly love you they will not cheat on you but that does not mean you will not go on an emotional roller coaster ride with them. One minute they are with you the next they are so far away. They cut their emotions off from everyone but that doesn’t mean they aren’t feeling anything. If they really love you then they will open up to you about everything in their own way. They give you their own sense of security and as a Capricorn opened me up to a totally different way of living. They are very patient men that do not take no for an answer. They love their distance but never go all the way away. TRUST ME, we broke up for a year and still never went more than two weeks without showing up, calling, or texting me. One time he was outside of Walmart when he knew I was there and called me just to tell me how beautiful I looked that day and when I got to my car there he was. Now I find myself always looking for him when I walk out of Walmart. We had a really big fight the other night and I probably told him I hated him a million times but what I really wanted to say was I love you and how could you let this happen to us? I miss him like crazy but pray that this time he really stays away forever. I know a piece of my heart will always be his and I know I hurt him with what I said but I grew up within the three years we dated. His aloof personality grows old and it ran its course. I still look at my phone hoping he will be there but I know this is probably it. To tell you the truth I miss him more of my friend than my boyfriend. Great man but a hell of a one to be in love with.
ReplyDeleteI felt like your story was a lot like mine until you said he never went two weeks without at least contacting you. It's been 2 weeks and a day since I have talked to my aqaumale, and that was when he dumped me :'(. I still love him though and I am willing to have the patience to wait until he comes back, which, I guess aqaumales are known to do too.
Deleteto anonymous from 21may:)
ReplyDeleteI really know what you mean with: "He drives me up the wall but I still find myself waiting for him to come back." I don't think i could be in a relationship with him again I'm scared to give myself to him ,because he will crush me again,but I can't tell him not to come when he wants.I like being with him even if his motives are hidden...I learned so much from him,I don't ask for much now and i am not so easily hurt now.maybe his task in my life was to teach me that you can live without person you love and still be happy:) and they really don't take NO for an answer:) I won't go so far and say that he loved me,he never said that and I know it's not true but still, its enaugh for me to see his smile,even If he shows to smile to anyone:)
anonymous from 19 may:)
I think aquarians are actually very simple people. They are endlessly curious, and idealistic, like children. They like to shock, and play, like children. They come back and leave because they are curious and just want to see if you are still into them. And when they find out, their itch is scratched and they are gone. They go about with their busy lives until one day they're like....I wonder if she's still thinking about me? Then they show up and say "Hi" as if nothing happened. It's because they don't have strong emotions, and they think its funny that other people do. So when you act all upset and angry, it gives them a power trip that they can make you feel this way, while they feel nothing...Just because it LOOKS like they have emotions (facial twitches) etc., doesn't mean they actually FEEL anything on the inside. When dealing with one, just treat them like they are emotionally retarded.... and everything will fine. NEVER get attached, NEVER show your real feelings, they play with women to get a reaction. make them show through their actions how much they like you. Don't do anything for them. Don't let them guilt trip or manipulate you. If you suspect they are doing this, just walk away. They are just people, and you are worth more than that.
ReplyDeleteI sm a pure double aqua...your honesty, frankness and openess is refreshing. I have learned I am best suited for an aqua female, which I have found (imagine that).
Deletewe 'get' each other...very sorry to read about your experiences...
we are very child like and unpredictable...that's part of what makes us so attractive. However, as a pure double aqua...i'm very proud of who I am and very annoyed by my shortcomings.
I say all of this to say: 25 years in one relationship, loving, committed and devoted father. Annoyed by how easily I can walk away after such time and commitment.
my advice...treat us the same way...no, don't do that you'll intrigue us even more.
I just loved this!!! It´s so true... I wish I read it before!! But what you said it´s the thing I´ve been doing anyway I guess... it´s the only way to deal with them.... treat them the same way like they don´t mean anything to you and like you can live without them. You realize soon that.. yes... you can live without them... and it´s better for you to be away from that emotional rollercoaster.
DeleteHmm, I don't think that 'treat them same way' would be work, anyway. I tried this before... when he texted me after his one-week disappearing, I ignored his text... He waited my reply for 5 hours, then texted me 'bye-bye' in my language.lol...When I tryed to told him my feeling, he got mad and said' how can I make you feel better?'.
DeleteHowever, we got together again, and after 1 month, he disappeared again..
U ARE RITE ON POINT
DeleteI have been in a relationship with an Aquarius man for 6 years and I love him with my entire heart and soul, but he has pulled so far away from me he does not hear me. His drinking and untrusted worthy friends have driven me away due to the fact he bends over backwards pleasing them. Here I am the one who truly loves him and helps him and I get brushed off and lied to. I was so angry and hurt I left the relationship. I wanted him to hear me, well it did not work. I am trying to put on a happy face but I do miss him. It has been two weeks and I got one text that read you dumped me goodbye and I am working 7 days a week. What is that? I want him back, but do I move on because in the end there will always be booze and friends leading him down a path of destruction. Me on the other hand I like stability and routine. Not looking for marriage just truthful companionship? I would love to hear some encouraging words!
DeleteYou might be in a very strong position. Whatever happens, if you work to improve your lot now you don't have this Aquarius messing you up, you cannot lose. Either he'll see through his friends (who as they do with Aquarius men) use him for their amusement and as a compliant driver/facilitator of their fun or he'll realise that he'd rather be with you and not his shallow minded friends. Sooner or later he'll want to come back. If you are happy in yourself and not dependent on him he'll want to stay too. Of course, you might have outgrown him by then.
DeleteAs a pure and double Aquarious I can tell you this. Married forr 22 years, she cheated. I'm very aloof and hard to get a hold of.
ReplyDeletewhen you do (through challengibg and stimulating me intellectually) I will move heaven and earth to have a conversation.
Were (in my opinion) very misunderstood. We love nothing more than to be with people and tes we get moody.
However, faithfullness, honesty and organized choas are what I believe to be the hallmarks for those of us that are pure.
I'm a Leo and met an aquarian guy a month ago.. Things were great, we grew very close on an emotional level and then out of nowhere he said he didn't thInk we had a future after telling me he wanted to be with me and how amazing he thought I was etc. he came round to talk we got back together everything was fine for a few days. Then he starts picking arguments and being generally nasty, complete Jekyll and Hyde. Fine one minute, next acting as if he hates me!! Then getting ready to go out together one night, he picks an argument over something so trivial and then ends it out of the blue. Deleted and blocked me on fb, end of. So confused. Never been on such an emotional rollercoaster.....
ReplyDeleteIts because he's scared of THAT FEELING that he likes you so much and thats why he's trying to show you you dont mean anything to him, which makes him actually fooling himself, which he doesnt like more an so on.. He can't just understand HIS feelings bcause he didnt felt it before. I bet he's already in love with you, but cannot accept it for himself. Believe me, i was 21 leo female got in love with a 26 aquarian guy. That was almost 10 years ago. And after 2 big breakups where i had other relationships already, caught myself coming back to him since i decided for myself i want to be with this guy forever. And that means, studying him, his character, how he ticks, how TO cope up with this. I'm a leo woman, with all my pride and stuff, believe me its so darn hard. But i know he's worth it. You just have to love him enough, be it on sad or happy times. I explode sometimes as well which brings up the balance anyway, but don't, DON'T let him think you don't have an idea in which kind of relationship you are into...then you're doomed. This time i'm writing this, he's sleeping beside me having a siesta, after he prepared a wonderful meal of salmon pasta with green salad and pine nuts, matching garlic bread. And served on bed. For me. Why he did it? Because he knew he hurt me yesterday when he told me he already learned to live without me when i was gone. Two times. And as i've known him already, i guess the wonderful meal was only to show me he still cares and that he's guilty and that he's sorry. BUT, aquarians never say sorry you know.. The show you, but they never say it.. No i love you's or anything like that. If the say so, its just to give you an answer you want to hear. And
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DeleteAnd it doesnt really matter..only matters is how long and how good you know this girl, so you can differentiate if he's talking, i it's the truth or not. Its gonne be a game. Hide and seek, mind games.. If you're ready to get the consequences, then stay. If not--better run..run far and fast before its too late. And if you believe this aquarian person loves you,(through his actions) then you are one lucky person out of 10 who caught one of the sweetiest, thoughtful, gentleman, patient, caring, good-looking(always on diet), smart, friendliest person on earth. Anyway, good luck! Leo woman - vienna austria
I am Gemini he is Aquarius, We married in November 2010, he left May 2012, and has been hiding out wont talk to me or respond to messages. He is acting like a five year old. He wanted a divorce so I filed it and he hid from being served. He will not come get his personal possessions. I do not understand. He is treating our marriage like it is a game, I don't know what to do now. I guess proceed with the divorce. He said I told him to leave but I did not he just up and left one morning and that was it.
ReplyDeleteHello everyone! I am a sag and WAS involved with an aquarius man - he's my soul-mate,my best friend. WE just broke up and I'm so devastated I just can't stop thinking about him. it was a beautiful breakup though. We both were in a long distance relationship. We had everything. I thought we could make it together but few days ago he told me he couldn't handle being far away from each other.
ReplyDeleteHe wanted me to be happy. He told me he doesn't want to see me to lonely and he doesn't want me to keep on waiting for him. He told me he's not dating anyone he just wants me to be happy and thought that it's time for us to move on.
It was really hard for me to accept what he said but eventually I learned to accept it. He wants me to be happy and I want him to be happy too. We both thought it's best for both of us.
Our breakup was not as hard as I thought it would be. We still love each other with all our heart and soul but all the distance has been the key to our breakup.
We now both are hoping our paths will cross someday and we believe that if we are really meant for each other, fate will bring us back.
At least we had so many beautiful memories together. He was the best thing that ever happened in my life. I hope fate will be on our side. I love him so much and I miss him.
Keep your aquarians close - not too close give them freedom, trust them, always be open and love them.
Let me tell you about the Aquarius man that stole my heart.
ReplyDeleteHe took me for £4000. Used me in every way imaginable. He used me to get away from a controlling marriage stayed with me until he had enough money to disappear to the other side of the world. He carried out a fraudulent claim on my home insurance and left behind numerous debts. I now have debt collectors knocking at my door.
He left behind clothes and other personal items promising me he would be back after he had sorted out his divorce and property matters.
When I was with him he was constantly checking out other women.
I had a break down. It was ugly.
Well now I have got my life back.
What you give out you get back.
Happy days Aquarius Man.
My feeling is that you will be a l
I recently fell head over heels for an Aquarius man. We dated for 7 months and they were the best months I've ever had in a relationship, we were attached to each others hips. We talked sunrise to sunset about everything, we had heated debates, we played like children. He told me he was beginning to feel for me more than he could express and that it was making him feel uncomfortable because he never felt like this before. Eventually his moody and jealous ways began to show. I evidently wasn't bothered by this but I thought hey maybe we should have the exclusive conversation. Boy, was I wrong at the mention of commitment he ended things with me by telling me I'm amazing and I could find any guy I wanted. I miss his ridiculously but he has told me not to hit him up anymore. I don't know what to do.
ReplyDeleteHe misses you. He was man enough to tell you ahead of time that the emotion he had toward you was overwhelming and unusual to him. He needed time to accept it on his own. He gave you warning, which you should be thankful for because they normally don't. But you asked anyway and scared him away. With aquarius men, they wanna feel the decision is their own when they are ready. If you talk to him,, don't be lovey or romantic.. Just friendly unless he initiates it and it's ginuine. But even then, don't spill all you love and emotions on to him. Play it cool
DeleteIm a libra female and I fell in love with a wonderful but difficult Aquarius man. I messed it up by still being friends (or maybe a little more) with an ex. But that's because I knew how Aquarians can be and I didn't want to be hurt. We were together for 8 months, best relationship of my life. We started off with a ginuine friendship, and grew so comfortable with each other. He read me like a book.. Treated me exactly how I could only dream to be treated, was romantic.. Everything was perfect. He was stubborn, but I even learned to love his stubbornness. He didn't communicate well at first but he did try to work on it for me. We made each other better. We always said we must've been meant for each other because we had a connection on radical levels. I fell in love with him, I couldn't deny it. I asked one day do you really know how I feel about you?" he said " I know you love me, I can see it in your eyes" it was then that I knew I wanted him forever. He was my soulmate. He never told me he lOved me but I didn't need it. I knew whatever the feeling was, it was strong and that was enough until he was ready. He didn't need to say anything or tell me how much he liked or cared about me. I could feel it and he showed it. The way he touched me.. Looked at me, how we interact, how he hugged me and liked so many things about me and I loved EVERY single thing about him. I'm convinced that when you really love someone u love their flaws too. It was like a fairy tale. He was my king. His family was my family. We were really becoming one. We eventually started talking less once our schedules became more busy and spending time became more difficult. I knew he was missing me. But I played like him and acted like I was cool without seeing or talking to him. He broke up with me saying he knew about my ex all along. I was devastated even though it was my own fault.. I guess I wasn't completely done with my ex but I'm young and young people can be unsure., I also thought he was playin me and didn't want to get hurt. But even now.. A month after that dreadfully painful break up. I still love him.. And I'm even more attracted to him. We were both playing a game.. And he came out on top and I admire his strength. He always said he was the boss lol guess I needed him to prove it. He told me not to contact him anymore after my overly emotional calls and texts that I know scared him. But I want him to be happy so I can give him his space and enjoy it by bettering myself and doing what I want to do. I'm still happy just with the thought of him, his smile, his walk, his voice, hands everything. I still occasionally text him whether he replies or not.. But nothing too soft and loving. Just to check on him, enough to let him know he's on my mind and that I'm happily living my life. I do think he will be in my future and if not then I am thankful for the time I had with him and that he let me into his heart.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I found this site. It's nice to find a place where people share something in common with you and can provide you with comfort that "NO, you are not alone and NO you are not crazy". I'm a Leo and I was in a relationship with an Aquarius on/off for 3 1/2 years. We have been off for a year and 8 months and obviously if I know how long we have been broken up then I still care. And care I do. I'm still in love with this person. very much so. very much so that it's annoying and irritating. We have broken up many times before. This has been the longest. I've been seeing someone these past 8 months but he remains in my head and my heart EVERY DAY! he should be proud. He has a new girlfriend! I think they've been dating for a year now. I lied to him and told him I wanted him to be happy... ugh please. Anytime I ask for a sign from the universe or God about who I'm gonna, supposed to be with I see his name everywhere around me. I'm immune to it now, when I ask the question and I see his name, I just brush it off, kinda, well on the surface. I still love him. We used to both say "You will never get rid of me" and I always told him I will love him always and forever. This always and forever thing is a bit tedious and painful especially since he's moved on and I haven't. I know it's possible for an Aquarius to come, he's come back plenty of times. It's so easy to tell people to move on if he's obviously moved on, and I know I am someone who holds on to memories and the what ifs but I knew our love. I know our love. I knew how when I felt a little kick in my heart that he had called my phone... majority of the time I was right. I was also right to bring up us breaking up on New Year's Eve 2011 but I didn't because I was enjoying our time together that we barely got. I'm sure things would have been different if I broke up with him once he dropped me off at home. I'm kinda waiting to see if my prediction is right but my life moves on in different ways... as life always consistently does.
ReplyDeleteI've know my Aqua guy since Sept last year. I was going through a very bad time as the previous guy i was seeing passed away. He came into my life at the time i needed a friend the most. The first time I met my Aquarius man it was amazing. First time ever I felt that connection with someone.. he made me feel good about myself. We just couldnt keep our eyes off eachother. After that, he didnt call or txt me. Confused me a lil but I read up on Aqua guys being distant etc so I gave him his space. He would message me randomly. He moved far which made it even more difficult but i still kept patient and staying as even friends was really good too. from Sept 11 till now I've only met him 3 times. He did randomly message me that he wants me and misses me but its like he keeps that distance from me. I thought at least he'd want to see me after a few weeks or a month but we hardly see each other. He came back in town recently and did say he wants to see. It just didnt happen. I was getting annoyed because he messages me when he feels like it but when i do, he doesnt respond back. I've been a good mate to him but in return he hasnt been there for me. I recently removed him off my facebook and thought he will get the message how hes hurting me by keeping me constently distant. When we are together is was amazing and I forget everything, and I know he feels the same too. I'm so lively and happy around him. I really miss him and i really want to be with him. Will he come back to me? I'm mentally and phyically attacted to him so much :(
ReplyDeleteyes he will come back if u r his true love. source:aquarian
ReplyDeleteI am a gemini female who cheated on an aquarius male we dated for two years since we both started school we dated in 8th grade and reconnected at college, i never thought after all of these years hed still want me, but then as the relationship progressed he started the typical aquarius ways, moody, means sometimes, happy others, so i ended up cheating bc i was bored he found out months later, his moons scorpio and mine leo, i find myself brooding over this still even though i thought it was a scorpio moon trait..i really miss him and wish he would talk to me..but he has a new girl now but still finds it necessary to tell me about how much better she is and how all of our friends love her way more than me ,,, this cant be true since our friends have been friends since i met him in 8th grade and now his new girl comes to visit all the time and is a leach to him which is what he didnt want from me...please i need help.
ReplyDeleteThis site is a god-send, I only regret not finding it sooner. It is SO true - Aqua men fall fast in like and just as quickly out! And that's what threw me how he could just shut his feelings off. He went from texting and wanting to hang out to "oh I'll need to see if I have plans." WTF?
ReplyDeleteNow I'm not even talking to him but it's hard to resist the urge to do so, but I'm sick of his games. He said he only "felt like a friend" to me but even doesnt even act like a friend. I'm just an ego trip and a toy to him to play with when it amuses him.
But a part of me wants another chance....WTF?
At least I'm not alone. There needs to be an online support group for gals (and guys) dealing with Aqua Asses.
And a 12-step program to get over them. When I feel a weak moment I call or text a friend just like an addict to talk me out of it and keep strong.
He's just a bad habit and SO not worth it.
Totaly understand the above , Iv been on and off with a younger aqa man and he has pursued me twice and dropped me twice both times for another woman... I still want him, want contact , want him to love me the way he did when i was what he wanted. He just seems to have forgotten all the feelings he had for me and has become cold distant and cruel... why oh why cant i stop wanting him, yes just like a harmful drug .
DeleteTo Anonymous7 September 2012 18:15,
DeleteLol thats soo true. At first it was non stop messages from him when I was getting to know him. After we met, it was the distant crap. It was as if I was chatting to a different guy with the 1 word response or messaging me back hrs or even days after. Even yesterday as an example. I messaged him on 15th Sept "Hey u alright?" He got the message and saw it but chose to ignore it. yesterday I needed advice on mobile phones (iphone). I knew he had one so I messaged him "hey, have u ever had problems with ur iphone?" he saw the message but ignored it again. Is he really that busy he cant message back? - From this behaviour, should I just ignore it and not bother about him anymore? Because I know that Aquas like the distance but at the same time i know they don't like being ignored? or if you have been in a similar situation? ADVICE PLEASE
I just happen to be browsing the web and came across this. Why is there a site about Aquarius males was my first thought. I did out of curiosity take the time to read all of these comments, and by the way I am a male. Many of these are very untrue about myself. First, I am a aquarius, I do get detached really easy and there are many things I would give not a second thought to. Second, I have never cheated, even is it was a girl I did NOT want to be with. Third, when I leave I do not come back. I often won't let others in, for they only cause problems.
DeletePlay this game to get over your Aquari-arse.
DeleteWake up and put yourself first! Make plans that are independent and exciting. Spend time helping people who are worse off than you. Be vocal in your support for environmental groups. Stay busy and keep with the happenings (this is true happiness). Strange but true - this'll likely attract back the Aquari-arse. Hopefully, by then, you'll be having such a good time you'll tell him to - how can I put this politely? - pee off!
I've had bad experiences with Aquarius men, until this one particular Aquarius man came into my life. We were perfect for each other. We couldnt help but want to be all over each other, we were so attracted to each other. But when I first started getting to know him I was committed to someone else so I remained just friends with him even though I was falling for him gradually. He wanted to spend a lot of time with me, he was very sweet. Sweeter and romantic than I've ever known because hes usually quiet and doesnt display much emotion generally, but he had wanted to do everything he could for me, to keep me happy. I was stupid and unreasonably acted strange to him, I found ways to get mad at him and I was at fault but he begged me not to act that way, I stopped talking to him. That was a year ago. I continued my life and would think about him every now and then, missing him, feeling stupid for the way I treated him. I decided to gather some courage to apologize and tell him I understand if he didnt want to be friends, but he didnt mind. I was so relieved deep down, I honestly had done a lot of thinking that made me realize I really cared about him. Eventually we became close (this was happening within the past few weeks) but I have a bf, and I told him. He was sad but he told me if I were single again he'd want to be with me. We became so loving, he wanted to see me again and officially spend time together when I had break and I wanted this more than anything in the world, but I know how this would be. Him and I were a perfect match with our misdemeanors and interests, we both wouldnt be able to keep our hands off each other, and I wasnt single so I knew I couldnt let it happen. I couldnt give him any promises about being with him in the future, and this overwhelmed him. I care a lot about my bf but I care a lot about this Aquarius man too, I wanted to especially be with him because he is always good to me, hes highly sexual like me, very passionate, and he listens and helps me out in the best possible way he could, and hes incredibly intelligent, he's very flexible and understanding. I've never known anyone so perfect with all those attributes. But I did find a flaw about him, he wasnt monogamous. As much I held control about my jealously, I couldnt suppress it so I figured it would only be an issue with him if I were ever to pursue him, and I wanted to spare him from it so I decided against pursuing him. He was overwhelmed about it and so was I, it broke my heart that I had done what I did, but I think it was for the better. I miss him until now, I think about him all the time. He couldnt be friends with me if we werent going to pursue each other, it made me sad but I know why, we were very passionately into each other, it would be impossible to suppress expressing our feelings towards each other as friends, so we went our seperate ways. We were always talking sharing our mornings together and late evenings until we fall asleep, but now its painful to wake up and not find any messages from him because we're not communicating anymore, or to lay down awake and get cozy talking to him wanting to be with me before I fall asleep. I knew I was going to lose either my bf or this Aquarius man, and apparently it was this Aquarius man. I love him very much, he has no idea. If I ever do decide it, and if worse comes to worse, I may just end things with my bf because its also not fair for him. I feel awful because this is the second time I laid this Aquarius man off.. Ugh, we really could have had something special together. Hes my love, but anyhow, I hope hes fine with life and finds someone he deserves.
ReplyDeleteDenise - you don't sound monogamous yourself. You must have been neglecting that bf of yours to get so close up to this Aquarius man... twice.
DeletePerhaps you've had a lucky escape though. It is an Aquarius man thing to have a man or woman break up with a partner so s/he can be with him. Of course, it doesn't last long after that.
...nice website! aquarius is a weird man. Boyish and adult, silly and serious, i get mad at my aquarius often enough for his aquarian behaviour. Poor guy! He seems to float around in life and never lets me know what he really wants. I never ask him about the future but sometimes I wonder why I bother. One good trick: play quiet. Don't show you're interested in him; be a bit mysterious. That's such a lame trick to play but he falls for it every time. It's sad, because I don't like guessing games and stuff; makes me feel i'm going out with a kid instead of a 30+ guy.
ReplyDeleteWell first i wanna say imma Guy and the guy i was involved with was a sagittarius but he had Venus in Aquarius...well he should have been an Aquarius becuase he act just like one....Distant, Cold, Mean, Detachted and yes a Cheater. First i met my Sag/Aqu guy on facebook. im 28 and he is 30. he found me which surprised me and we hooked up. Not sexually but we met and hung out @ my apartment. i was very attracted to him and it seemed we had alot in common. after our first meeting. he would text me kisses, kiss me before he leave my apartment, wash my dishes for me which shocked the hell out of me and bought me a television because the one i had was small so i figured he bought it because he liked to watch sports. so anyway we would have mutual conversations and talk about our past and our backgrounds and it was really cool to have someone to open up to because i was already going thru a situation that involved my health. Im Hiv Positive. so no i didnt tell him right away because i had no interest in being sexually involve with him because i was afraid to be judged and i figured he wouldnt understand what i been thru prior to my ex but mind you we were in a converstaion and i was smoking marijuana so i figured it would be a perfect time to tell him just in case he decided he liked me just as much as i like him. HE DIDNT WANT TO HEAR IT. and as he said he didnt want to hear about my ex boyfriend but im truthful to a fault. i believe in honest and i dont believe in hiding my status if i think im going to be sexually involved. so anyway he told me not to get attatched. okay. i didnt pay no mind to it because i didnt know what he ment by that. i never had a guy tell me that before. so i didnt tell him but we became sexually involved anyway. protection was the key. so the first 6 months everything was cool. he texted me kisses, kissed me when he left my apartment. wrote me on facebook sayin goodnight of course with the kisses so i was like hey finally i found a guy who really likes me. that was the first 6 months. the next 6 months was a Rollercoaster. I was fallin for him. and i ahvent been in loe in a very long tyme plus i was still dealing with my New Status. so after the first 6 months his True Colors started to show and he was confusing me with the disappearing and showing up 1,2,3 months later. i didnt like that. i have venus in libra so i love to love and be in love. so the next 6 months he started acting different towards me and it was upsetting but i became use to it. so i started reading astrology because im a Astrology freak. he was born Dec 15 and i was Born Dec 6. i felt right then this guy is ment to be my SOULMATE. i was familiar with Venus and love so i concluded he has Venus in Aquarius and i have Venus in Libra.....We are totally comapitable. i understood. the distant, the cold and hot and his freedom. cool. i like my independence. care little about freedom because im the type i like my guy to be around me. when he came around he would make me feel good. make me smile, make me laugh, got into showers with me i mean he made me feel like a PRINCESS even though im a MALE. he the Top and im the Bottom. anywayz. the next 6 months was like WTF? we where friends on facebook and i would see he would flirt with other people and of course im not the jelouse type but my jelousey would kick in because here is a guy who would come over and treat me so sweet and kind but go home and be a total whore. LAMO! the right termonalogy. trust me. then i would comment on his status and he would get mad and block me on facebook. so im like okay fine cool. you want to flirt with other people then go be with them then. i would say 2 months later he would call me and be like can i come over and i would let him because i had feelings for him. i questioned him about the other people and he would say o it was nothing. i dont mess with them like that and it was just friendly.
ReplyDeleteCONINTUATION FROM THE POST ABOVE: well im the type i dont like my emotions toyed with. so i forgave him. then 1 day he came over and we did the deed and the condome broke!!!!!!! yes it broke! so now he is Hiv positive. but he didnt say it right away. he disappeared for like 1 month and a half. he came over and we didnt have sex which was odd to me but i didnt pay it no mind. he kissed me goodbye and disappeared AGAIn. then i get a call with him sayin do i have something to tell him and i said no. he said well im positive and i was like well are you okay and he said i saw you are takin the same pills im takin and im like well how you know you got it from me when are out and about havin sex with different people and then he put his mother on the phone and i talked to her. seems he been doin a lot of plottin and scheming because he waited a 1 month and a half to tell me such news. i was devestated because i knew i should have told him but i tried but he didnt want to listen to me because he is very controlling and possessive. so i was like well i dont see him ever so often like every blue moon. i was in denial but then i figured maybe it was me so i told the truth. HE FORGAVE ME and still wanted to be with me. thats when all the trouble started. he came over after that converstaion and we talked about it and i explained to him why i didnt tell him and that i was very sorry and i didnt mean to hurt him and i owe him my life. he said he forgive me and we had sex again. after that intimate moment i told him i was in love with him and i think it hit the fan and he got up and left one mourning and said goodbye. it hurt my feelings because here i was involved with him for 11 months and it was a jood and bad 11 months but i knew i was in love. he didnt like that and became very distant. i would text him and call him explaining why was he acting this way because i said i loved him but he ignored me and wouldnt respond to me so i wrote him on facebook and comes to find out he was involved with someone else while involved with me. my world shattered because here i am worried about him and why i havent seen him in 3 months he out having sex with other people. im like WTF? so i would text him and call him asking him if he doesnt want to be with me anymore he should tell me because he is breaking my heart and acting as if i dont have feelings.
ReplyDeletePart 3 for the post above: i sent 100 msg and left maybe 10 voicemails askin him why is he acting this way? why did he even come back after he disappeared wen he found out he was positive. he never said anything. to this day he hasnt called, he hasnt said not once he didnt want to be with me i just assusmed, no text, no nothing. just cold and distant like he doesnt care about me but i feel i was the fool to say i was in love which i am because he comeplets me and he forgave me i see myself with a future with him but he wants to sleep around and do things he knows that hurt me and not have a care he is doin it. i asked him over and over and over do he want to be with me and if he doesnt let me know so i can move on with my life. i feel a road block in front of me because he knows my feelings pretty well and i think he is playin my emotions against me and dangling me by strings. he wants his cake and eat it too and they say. still from reading all about aquarius he should be a aquarius all the way. still till this day. i have no phone call, no text, no thing. i call him and he doesnt answer. but i leave good points for him to think about like really dude if you dont want to be with me then whats wrong with you sayin you dont want to be with me? like whats the problem? sometimes i feel he does love me because he forgave me for what i have done and then to have sex after the fact it was done already he must love me or something and doesnt want to let me go but still deal with him having sex with other people. sometimes i think im a fool but i never felt love like this beofre and till this day im very very very confused. he knows i will wait on him to come back because im use to his disappeariing acts and not callin but as soon as i say fuck it. here he comes popping up. like WTF dude? and that is my story. im confused whether i should stay and wait or should i move on wit my life but i cant see myself witout him because we been thru so much together. we are both sagittarius but venus in aquarius and venus in libra.
ReplyDeleteI have read this before and now I feel I never fully paid attention to it. My aquarius ex boyfriend has a track record of doing this dissapereance acts. He´s been coming and going since we broke up. He comes for various reasons... to talk, to flirt, to try to get me into bed even when he knows I got a boyfriend, etc... and he always says he loves me. We had a few deep conversations when he told me about his feelings (pain, fears, etc) and told me that he really appreciates me. When we´re together he´s been a jerk and I don´t know why he keeps coming back to me. He says something but his actions doesn´t match his words. Last time we fought I dissapeared for a while and didn´t talk to him.... next thing I know he´s with another girl and he´s been flirting with her all this time he´s been with me. WHAT??? Why does he do this to me and says he cares? A few days they made "official" their relathionship in facebook (I know it sounds silly but still) and just days after that he just writes to me on chat and treats me like I´m a friend and all and well.... He´s never been a true friend to me!! He just calls friend to everybody?? Why does he write now? Is he playing with me or testing me or he really wants me to be his friend???
ReplyDeleteHey guys,
ReplyDeleteI'm back. I posted a comment on here maybe in July saying how my aqua man was running away from commitment though we seemed to have some of the best chemistry. Well we got back together in August and things picked up where they left off and from all that I've learned with losing him once I knew to adjust to his moodiness and his need for distance. Yet again a week ago, when things were at their best, no arguments, lots of sex and conversations about how amazing, loving, and important I am to him, he dumps me again. He told me we can't be friends and not to hit him up. I don't know what to do? Should I let him go?
I know how you feel!! This aqua ass did the same thing to me..he told me how spesh i was and how much he liked me then next moment bam!!! We start arguing over the most stupidest thing and he tells me its over dont call him back!!! Im still hurt from It! im sure you are sick and hurt from the way he treats you, and its not easy to move on but seriously kick him to the kerb...find someone worthy thatll treat you right. IF YOU REALLY CANT, keep him as a freind only and play it cool. Ive realised the more u play it cool and not give them the attention, the more they want to figure you out. Im having the same problem actually- should i leave or patch things up? im hping he realises his childishness so im gving him some time. it totally depends on the guy and if hes worth it, but he sounds like a typical aqua ass. Gdlk!
DeleteMan I sure am hurt. I feel like he doesn't try and shuts out whenever he's in a mood. But yea I think you should let the issue blow over then speak to him casually.
DeleteYes. Let him go. Especially, if he said not to be in touch, don't be in touch. But, next time make sure you don't let him in without verbalizing his actions (no blame game; just that you don't want the bullshit. Be Gentle). If he wants to be with you, he needs to quit playing. You need to make him quit playing by telling him you understand his bullshit. It's always great with an Aquarius. They live the fairly tale; the movie love. Only, without the happy ending (Not always of course). The best thing to do is be honest with him, tell him how you feel when he goes hot and cold and be assured that you can live happily without him if he chooses to continue the game. Don't play along with him and he'll wonder why you don't like the game. Good Luck!
ReplyDeleteSource~ A Sagittarius Girl (Rising Virgo, Sun Sagittarius, Venus in Capricorn)
I can't just let him go. He really completes me and motivates me to be a better me. You think he'll come around and reach out if I pull back?
DeleteTypically, an Aq will come back on their own sweet time. You think you "can't", but you can let him go. In fact, you could because they don't tend to like going back to anyone clingy, it scares them off.
DeleteHi. Im a a gemini woman that has dared an aqua man for 2 years. From the moment we met he instantly created a small obsession with me probably because he was not used to females not giving him any attention at all. Because he is a very social and manipulative person he managed to integrate himself with my group of friends just so he could be around me. He slowly crawled under my skin and we became friends. I think due to the fact that he always seemed to be around everytime i went out. His manners were impecable and his sense of humour made me grow fond of him. I was aware of his feelings for me and always exploited this. I always was pushing the limits to see how far he would go. I tourtured the motherfuckr :)) we would talk for hours and spend all day with eachother ( me having a boyfriend at that time. We grew apart because this gelous pices in my mind was dull compared to this smart intelegent funny aquarian who was always there for me) but i always made it very clear to him that we are just friends and that i am in a relationship with a man that i love( bullshit) . Anyways nine months later i finally gave in to my feelings and we started dating. It was magic. We were together every day, all day long. Without knowing it i became addicted. We started neglecting our friends, but it didnt matter beacuse we had so much fun together. We overtook eachothers bad habbits and even started donig those toghether( russian roulette, poker, the ocasional p*t smoke) we were a great team. I never had a doubt in my mind that he ever cheated on me. I didnt see him capable of such a thing. One day he said he wants to break up.. I Thought it was just a game and i should play along. I soon found out it wasnt after a couple of days of him acting very vert cold. So after the firt time he didnt answer my call i stoped calling.. For 3 weeks. The worst weeks of my life i lost 8 kg and became very underweight( 38 kg)...i wasnt sleeping i wasnt eating and i swear i wasnt drinking as much water as i cried tears. After almost a month i texted.. I politly asked for some of my stuff back.. The asshole dindt even want to face me he sent them trough a mutual friend.. I didnt ever have to keep dibs on him beacause everybody kept telling me everything he was doing( we lived in a small town) it seemed helful then..not so helpful in the long run..i stoped going to school .. I didnt care anymore. My parents convinced me to start seeing a shrink.. I did for 2 months.. It helped a little. Its been 7 months since we broke up and i still cant get over him. Its crazy. I applyed to univ in a diffrent city and moved ( it didnt help i still go home on weekends and have to see his car everywhere). Its very weird and unsettling because the reason he had for breaking up is that he wants to start seeing other girls:)) when is he planing on starting that beacuse he has been single all this time. I was desperate in front of him.. My mistake.. But it was for a very short while because i was so confused ( 10 days) of what was going on. We havent talked in 7 monthes but im still in bed at 3 am sometimes crying.. Less and less nowadays. I know that even if he did want to come back he would be hesitent because i think he is well aware of what he put me through and knows how stubburn and cruel i would act. No matter what happend .. Everytime he looks in the mirror.. The motherfcker always sees the tatoo he had made for me on his arm staring back at him:))) it hasnt happed so far but i cant wait for our first encounter.. I just want to see the look on his face when he sees me. I never forced this to happen even though i coudve been a little check-in stalker. The bigger coincidence the better. Will he ever come back? What do you think?
ReplyDeleteHi I am a aeries woman.. Had relationship wif a aqua man. He is a man wif a v high ego n he don't like people saying him. He cannot accept my past whn I have flings but I proved to him I have already stopped all these . I hurted him with my words and he cannot accept my past. He told me he is sick and tired of relationship and he don't trust gals anymore . He knew I won't hurt him and I changed for him but he juz kept pushing me away. He said he want to study 1st for his final year and told me that he don't want be affected by anything. At 1st he tell me we will be tgt back when he clear his studies and debt hut he started saying we cannot work out and leave it to fate? What the heck he wants. He told me he love mi but want to remain as frens. He scared of getting hurt by me and got turned off by my words. What should I do? I really love him and I am the one kept putting an effort to keep this relationship.. He said he is serious wif me but I am juz treating him as some other guy. Why can't he see that he is v impt to me? Should I give him time to finish his stuff and let him have trust for me again? I know he still love me and care for me
ReplyDeleteMy aqua man and I have had a very interesting time. I am a Scorpio female. We were immediately drawn to one another. The relationship began quickly and when emotions got involved he ran claiming he had ``personal" issues to work on. Being a Scorpio I went on with life and fun as normal and was a but bugged when he wouldnt stop calling or texting or constantly asking me what I was doing. Eventually I told him the truth: that I was a great catch and that since I was back in the pond where he put me then unless he had more to offer he should just quit his fishing career. One week later he admitted it was fear. Fear of his own feelings. And here we are together again. I love his awkwardness and never ending chatter...he possibly hates my silence and emotional expressions lol. But some how we cling to each other. He is my best friend and lover.
ReplyDeleteOh my god!! Aquarians are nuts! Truly. I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 10 months. We were living together but just recently moved out as the house sold. So i have been with my parents and he is with friends. We had been planning to move in again but have been having petty fights. I am a pisces by the way- I know i can drain him. I need alot of love and emotional support. But, he loved me. He did all those things. Just recently we both felt like we needed space and he told me he didnt want to live with me again for some time.
ReplyDeleteThe princess that i am - I told him that wasnt acceptbale to be and i wnated to know roughly when. He couldnt even give me a time line so i ended it with him. He was crying and telling me i am the only one for him ever.. But i saw his this week thinking it would all go back to normal after a week of silence. But he has done a 360 and is now saying we need this space, and we will get back together if we believe for now we have to be seperate. I am DYING over here. I am in love with him, have been for 5 years (friends for ages) and i had him and now stupidly have f*cked it up. Does anyone have similar expeirence and think hell come back like he says? I feel like he truly will... i just hope its not in years time....
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Well I'm scorpio and started off as friend to an aqua, well something happened & we became more involved, then to my surprise I found out he was married, I had no contact for about a year. I got an email apoligising and asking for forgiveness. I went through two years without contact, but it came to a point where I felt strong enough to confront him as he kept emailing me. We discussed and I listened I decided I could forgive and we could remain friends (he is divorced now) I think the time apart had matured him we are more honest, he lives in another area to me but we hope to meet soon, just my feeliings for him will always be more than friends and my obsessive behaviour has caused us to disagree. Smetimes I don't hear from him in couple of weeks, he said I shouldnt worry if I don't hear from him he is still the same person . He does confuse me sometimes he can say things that make me feel he cares then other times he makes me feel why do I bother. Only time will tell if things work out. I realised I need to back off even though I care for him I need to keep my eyes open for other guys, if its to be with aqua it will be, if not I won't feel so bad and I won't have lost a friend. When we can talk and be honest we can joke at how different we are, he is very laid back and i'm a little serious, excepting each others differences help but easier said than done.
ReplyDeleteI’m a Cap girl with a Gemini moon. And I’ve posted here before bout how this aqua guy I dated long back and who broke my heart…suddenly resurfaced 8 years later..as if nothing had happened.
ReplyDeleteI still love this weirdo guy tho am married now…but that’s really just cos I don’t know how to de-LOVE someone. I can identify with sooo many of you girls..and its VERY irritating to see that these self obsessed selfish SOBs break soo many hearts and hv no regrets.
This aqua guy who now chats with me like am his ‘friend’..keeps hankering me to fix him up with some girl. Like WTF ! I mean I have kept things casual this time around..cos I have gotten over the hurt in a way…and I just want him in my life….but that doesn’t mean I have forgotten what an ASS he was to me.
Further..he openly tells me that he is ok with ANY girl..single/married wotever and would love to have an affair with me too. Now this is so outrageous in sooo many ways –
1. Isn’t he concerned that EVEN IF I find some chick for him to date, it would most likely be someone I know..and I can easily tell her how much of a tool he can be ?? Which girl who knows me and is my friend will want to date him after knowing how he treated me ??? Yes it was in the past and I have forgiven him…but I haven’t forgotten. But such audacity to assume that I would only talk good about him to the new girl !!
2. Even if they start dating…I would most likely know ALL minute details of their affair..through the girl..isn’t he like even a little bothered about it ??
3. And when they break off..which they will.. that girl might never speak to me again.I know it seems like I am assuming all this but those who hv dated aqua guys wud know what I’m saying. He is maybe the BEST affair you will ever have..but he is also 99% the one who gets away.
4. And now everytime he talks to me its to ask if I know a girl for him. And when I say no..he calls me useless…and just goes off without even a bye. I know it sounds like I am a total sucker to still be into him but….again..the Aqua-widows would know the feeling.
Finally…I SOOO just cant bring myself up to fix him with any girl. Cos there are only two outcomes… A. They don’t work out..and then I get flak from both sides.
B.they do work out and then…I have to bear with how much he loves THAT girl talks. That is not possible for me.
So anyway am not gonna be the matchmaker for him. But I just cant help feeling hurt,sad,angry..that he would ask me to do that.. It just proves how clearly he doesn’t love me… nor cares for my feelings. HE REALLY ONLY cares for himself.
I loved him long back cos he charmed me, wooed me, told me how much he loved me…and I believed him. And let myself fall for him. Cos I take words seriously. Esp in these matters. And once I fall in love..i put ALL my trust, faith, belief and heart in the guy. It later turned out that he … was cheating on me anyway. Which to me says that he lied to me about his feelings too. (or did he?) But I was far bygone by then . WHYYYYY does this happen ? why doesn’t my heart let go of him though my head keeps showing me HOW much he isn’t into me… and how much he isn’t worth it ???? HOW does one de-LOVE someone ??
This forum is my ROCK. I have decided to play it cool and not messg him again..and everytime I feel like..I come here. To read how others are also treated by these kind of selfish B@$%!#ds !!
I hate him for doing this to me for telling me how madly he is in love with me and how he thinks am his soulmate…and then leaving me in the lurch. And then going off for 8 years. And then coming back to ask me to hook him up.
Aqua guys who are reading this…STOP that smug smile on ur face and PLEASE own up to ur follies. You might not intend to hurt but u do nevertheless and it isn’t funny. Or cool. I believe in karma and this kind of bad karma gets back to you 100%.
This aqua guy also is still single..all these years. Yes I would love to believe it was cos of me..but I know better.
The "average" mature Aquarius man is, in my own opinion, best of with a mature Libra woman. She will understand all of his eccentric quirks, and vice versa. Leave the Aquas for the Libras. :-P They accept each other. Period. The forever lasting energy is too strong! ^_^
ReplyDeleteOk, so I started dating this Aqua male a few weeks ago and he fell madly in love with me (I'm an Aries female). Sending me roses, love songs and telling me I would be his future wife. He said he has never felt this way so quickly about anyone and that we were the same. Well, he's very over weight and I told him I don't mind a little but he's extremely overweight and he's trying to loose. I have tried to encourage and help but I still struggle so today I said something cause he wanted the "truth"! He got mad and said for me to find a skinny man and he will always love me but knows when to let go! WTH!! You don't disappear and give up like this. I'm so upset and mad over it. I care for him and fell for him and want him healthy! So now he blocked me on FB and won't respond. I told him he made a big mistake and when/if he comes back around I won't b there. Crazy! He loves me??
ReplyDeleteI agree with the person above who said:
ReplyDelete"With aquarius men, they wanna feel the decision is their own when they are ready. If you talk to him,, don't be lovey or romantic.. Just friendly unless he initiates it and it's ginuine. But even then, don't spill all you love and emotions on to him. Play it cool."
With playing it cool, you've gotta be sincerely relaxed and detached (I have some air sign placements in my chart--NOTE: the "evolved" people of all signs don't play cat and mouse games unreasonably!!)...
Air Signs really live and love via the mind. Too many emotions are confusing and unstable and cause for panic, disappearing acts, strange behavior (to you), etc. Being cool about it means you are "mentally stable." It's about mental strength. I have Gemini/Libra in my chart and have had relationship experiences with Libra, Geminin, Aquarius (tough, LOL! But never boring!). Good luck to all!
From what I can gather the majority of them are just players! My Aqua guy told me he loved me after only a matter of days! Said he had never felt like this with anyone before, blah blah blah, then disappeared for just over 2 months with no word whatsoever! Waltzed back into my life with some lame excuse as to where he had been and then wanted to carry on like nothing had happened. And like an idiot I let him! Well he stuck around for another month and then hey presto, went completely off the radar for weeks. Came back again with another excuse, stuck around for a few more weeks and he's gone again! They're pathetic. This guy is 49 years old too, it's not like he's an immature teenager....just an immature adult. I've seen the light and cut him loose once and for all. Told him it's obvious he's not into me and if he tries to waltz back into my life to play with my emotions again, he can just turn around and waltz right back out again! They suck you in with their charm and amazing words, making you feel like you're the only woman on the planet for them. As the saying goes, men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears. What they tell us, we fall for. I think it's sad how they treat women, although what's probably sadder is that we let them.
ReplyDeleteOMG to Anonymous (14 May 2013, you and I must have been involved with the same man LOL. Love the way you use the term "waltz back in". That's EXACTLY what they try and do. My guy would keep disappearing mysteriously without any warning for between 3-4 weeks every time. Not a word during that period. Then he'd come back saying how "hurtful he knew it was to me and how ashamed he was", and then the turkey would be as loving as anything with his words and take off again a short while later!! So if he was THAT ashamed for doing it the first time, why keep on doing it. I mean if he doesn't want to hang around and forge a proper relationship, why keep coming back to me at all?!? We weren't sleeping together so he obviously didn't keep coming back for that. This went on for months and months, a pattern kept forming and I got sick of it. And you're so right, they do suck women in with their charm and good looks. Bottom line ladies, if a man, and I mean ANY man, no matter what star sign they happen to be, wants to be in your life and wants you to be in his life, HE'S THERE FOR YOU ALL THE TIME. Otherwise you need to get rid of him and find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.
ReplyDeleteHow can I get my Aquarius Ex Boyfriend back? Should I continue to talk to him? I am an Aries.
ReplyDeleteMy Ex Boyfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. We dated for over 6 months but have been friends for a few years before that. We used to work together. Our relationship was awesome. But then i got a little too crazy for him. My jealousy acted up. He is good friends with his Ex Girlfriend who he dated for years but no longer lives nearby. She is also pregnant with her current boyfriend. I was jealous of their friendship and constantly accused him of still being in love with her. We got into a couple of HUGE fights, including a couple that got physical. Keep in mind these fights were also after a night of drinking. The last night he got upset because I got extremely wasted again and he said he was fed up with the babysitting and arguments. So he broke up with me. I was devastated. Especially because he went from claiming that I was his future everything and making our future forever plans, i.e. marriage, kids, etc. to saying he fell out of love with me and saying he did not like the person he would become when I pushed him to the extremes. I still love him and I know I messed up, but I never thought that he would break with me. Especially since he chased me and convinced me to go out with him until I finally agreed and fell for him.
Anyways, I really want him back. Immediately following the break up, I begged an pleaded with him to give me another chance. I was so depressed. So sad. Continuously telling him how much I desperately loved and missed him. He would tell me he loved and missed me too and that he was sorry for everything (the breakup and hurting me) but he wasn't sure if he wanted to go back to the relationship because he hadn't been happy for a while.
Well, he still text messages me and emails me on a daily basis. And he calls me when I ask him too but just to talk about normal everyday stuff. Since like I said we had been friends for many years before. and when we were together the best of friends. I really want him back. And everywhere I read it says to not contact him for like a month to make him miss me. But what do I do since he still contstantly emails and texts me to ask how my day/night is going, he lets me know what he is up too etc. Should I continue to reply to his messages or just stop responding altogether until it's been about a month. I really want him back. And don't want to fall into another ex-girlfriend who is better as a friend? Please HELP. Especially if you are a guy and especially and Aquarius one. lol
P.S. I have never had problems getting guys. I currently have a few guys now attempting to be with me especially now that I'm newly single, but I have no interest as I am still in love with my ex.
I am a Libra girl born Sep 24th and he is Aqua guy born Feb 15. We are both 40. For the first 7 mths we were inseparable. We had issues at first because I didnt understand his interactions with so many women. He always would go out of town without me to his friends and not want to tell me anything about it. He says I dont know them and they are his friends. He says he tells me everything and that I have nothing to worry about. Seems like every woman has his number. He does do things for me and I do for him. We talk everyday into the early morning hours. He swears he wants to marry me. This is of course when he is not in a mood. Recently I have not seen him for almost 2 mths until this past Sunday. Every weekend had somewhere to go. We live less than an hour apart. I saw him this past Sunday and he was going on and on about how he loves me more than anyone in the world and is going to marry me and didnt realize how much he missed me. Recently his ex has come up saying she want him back after 3 years. He entertained it but said they didnt have anything real anyway. He had her as friend on fb but now says he deleted her. I asked him why he feel to hold on to her pic and number if done with her as he has told me and her. He immediatedly got mad and said he will not tell me anything else about him anymore and now barely want to talk unless I call him.I really dont know what the big issue is because if it were the other way around he would be all over it. Seems Im always bending over to fix things when he is the one catching tudes and flipping out. Very hard for him to apologize. I hate to fuss or fight but I do let him know what is not cool with me. He takes every discussion as an argument and has an issue with face to face discussions. I wish he were more fair and understanding as I have to be with him. I feel like Im raising him and dont want to have to go through years of hell before we have a consistent . relationship. How should I deal with him?
ReplyDeleteI am into that guy from our office. He`s typical Aqua - handsome, extremely intelligent with a lot of friends(Incl. girls friends), but I`ve never seen him with one girl - like a special one.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, we started chatting in the corp instant messaging he was friendly and all. We would chat every once and awhile. I once told him that I want to try shooting with gun, he said that he loves guns and shoots often but did not offer that we try it together.
On another instance he shared that he went to a cave during the weekend and did bungee and when I told him that I`ve never did that he said ' If you ever have the chance to do it - do it' WTF!!!!
Anyway as this wasnt really going anywhere like him asked me out,I stopped pinging him and did not reply to his note once too. I believe he thought that I was overloaded as I`ve never did that before.
2 weeks later he pings me again teasing me with ":P busy girl"
I just told him "weird boy", he literally got excited that I consider him weird and wanted me to explain why I think he`s weird I just told him that I`d probably do that another day/time he just said ' as you wish ' and that`s all.
It`s been another week since then and nothing from him. I dont ping him too.
I just wanna get to spend more time with him as he is really smart, sharp and nice man to talk to. Any ideas how do I attract his attention?
I just wanna take it out of that virtual chatting.
I'm amazed at how much I could relate to most of these comments! Similar to some of you, I am a Libra woman and I dated an Aquarius man for two months before deciding to end things due to his insecurity about our relationship. I was even more frustrated when he willingly went along with the break up! I had a gut feeling that he was getting ready to end things, but I'm so glad I beat him to it. It's been almost two months since we broke up but we've kept in contact every week since. Deep down I still have crazy feelings for the guy but I'm not sure how he feels. I figured since he still calls me, he must still like me but then again, I can never be too sure with him. We also met up about three weeks ago and things were exactly like they were when we were together. UGH! I'm trying really hard to forget him (and the fact that he moved out of state recently is not helping as much as I thought it would), but every time I hear his voice I can't help but fall in love again. I really want to know how he feels about me at the moment but I'm afraid that if I do, he will no longer want to talk to me. Should I ask him how he feels about me or should I just let things be (we're friends now, but I honestly don't think I can do this since I still have feelings for him)? I desperately need to get out of this Aqua-slump!
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When i heard him say it,it was like the ship that we both have been sailing on for years with dreams,future plans,and our life plan together as husband and wife,has just been wrecked and sinking slowly,and he just proposed to me last year "Feburary 14"on our val night together.everything that we have built up for years was breaking apart so fast that i was about loosing my mind and my heart brakeing into pieces.i was so confused,because the man i had been in love with for years wouldn't do anything to hurt me or jeopardize the plan we both set up for life.and now he was beyound my understanding anymore,acting strange and rejecting my calls and anger was now his new behavior towards anything i say.
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I am a pisces woman with a aquarius man, i get over things like fights and stuff quick but my partner stays in an ignoring state for days, as a mushy lovey person i dont understand this and i feel very hurt as it appears he doesnt care and i get scared into thinking is gonna leave everytime we fight, he told me he will talk about it when his ready but i feel if it takes too long we will fall apart..can a aquarius man please explain to me how they ignore and put their feelings aside from the girl they're suppose to be in love with?
ReplyDeleteI think I went through just about everything that has been posted above!
ReplyDeleteMy Aqua is such a sweet, fun loving, loyal person. BUT all of these behaviors of leaving was blamed on the lack of Trust. Fortunately for him, when I met him he had just gotten out of a 3 yr relationship (so did I) and was looking to mingle...(so was I)
WE hit it off AMAZINGLY ALWAYS on the phone ALWAYS taking me on dates. IT was incredible!!! Then I broke his trust. I believe from that day on, I was in fo the disasterous rollercoaster ride. He began to contact his ex. and as we made up, and I made another mistake(in his eyes) he would leave and go back to her, momentarily then return.
This is the 3rd dissaperaring act that occured and THIS time Im hurt because as always we were preparing for vaction together, moving in, and going to a wedding together.
He hasnt contcted me, instead to say it was over (after i demanded an answewr) and then to say how tired of the arguments he was, and that he never meant to hurt me.
This ex of his, isnt the best choice but hes comfy with her. Where with me, He was excited!
Im ready to give up. But the good times, and his love has me feeling that he will return... Damn You AQUARIANS!
Aquaius men always intrigues me naturally because I'm a Scorpio, but at once I understand and adores eccentricities, strong Leo and fifth house. The last Aquarius man I've semi(?) romantically involved with was my best guy friend. He's still my friend, although we only touch base once in awhile.
ReplyDeleteThey're loving, loyal, and ahead of the times. If you love them, just love them, nothing more nothing less, that's what I learned. If one day, they decide to treat you special, never take it to heart. Cause the next day, they just might pop. Nothing ever stays permanent with them because they see everything other than their own emotions. Ingenious, cool tempered, and trustworthy companions, Aquarius are your forever lasting friends.
Of course, they do settle, and when they do, they pick the cream of the top mates. :-)
After being in relationship with husband for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I saw some good talk about this spell caster called Dr kala and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: Kalalovespell@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.I CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: Kalalovespell@gmail.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
ReplyDeletei am a scorpion woman witd a leo moon for past 9 months i was in relationship with an aquarius man. he left me saying that he is having lots of problems. he is a punjabi singer amrit singh. we had such a wonderful relationship together. he is having his divorce from his first wife, this information he hide from me in the starting and later on when we get into serious relationship he just left me just like that.causing me so much pain and hurt that i can't even explain. i loved him so much with all my heart was there for him and wanted to be his support in everything. but i guess he wanted something else. he hides lots of things from me. even his personal information. he avoids meeting at public places. though i always insist. i have paid mostly his bills though he is having rich family background. i dont know how to forgive him or forget everything. and how should i start my new life.
ReplyDeleteI am a Leo.I had a beautiful relationship with an aqua girl. She was the first to say i love ,the first to talk about moving in, the first to talk about marriage. She hurt her knee in a bad car wreck. I took care of her during her surgery at 9 months. And shes like i hope we move closer one day. Then after her surgery she talked about moving back to florida and was distant. It kind hurt me. We ended up breaking up. Then ten days later we get back together. She said we are still together but sloooow. Slow was right. I tried to keep it cool. I tried to let her come to me. In the last two months of our relationship we was growing distant. She was my one.. I didn't know why she was doing this. Shit happened in the end. I really didn't mean it to. I talked to a close friend about us and this friend betrayed me. Told my girlfriend means things to get her to break up with me. My friend totally betrayed me plus i never said those bad things about my aqua. Never will never had. She ended up breaking up with me over that. Said she doesn't have time for drama. I really didn't cause it. I had no intentions. I never talked bad about her. I just wish she believed me. She told have good luck and have a good like. Here i am crying over my aqua and i am not friends with the person who betrayed me. I am so upset. I lost my love of my life my aqua.
ReplyDeleteWhat if you had done something out of shear panic , like ask a close relative of his about him , cause you wanted the truth to the rumours , you were hearing about him and his ex still dating ... He found out and had totally flipped out , had told me over the phone while the relative was in his presence No, I am not dating her! And then follows that up with please don't call or text me anymore , I want nothing to do with you, I can't be with some1 that snooped sooo low as to go ask my family about me .... And then while chatting a mutual friend , he tells that person , he might as well get back with his ex . Is he saying all that out of anger , cause aqurius men do say thing out of anger to be mean and hurt the other party he thinks he was wronged in any way.... Help please will I ever get him back . It been a week now that all of the drama took place.....
ReplyDeleteI am a sagitarius girl with an aquarius man and we have been doing long distance since january of 2013. We plan to meet later this year in december on my birthday which is the 6th. Anyways in the beginning me and him were friends. We talked as friends and everything then one day I gave him my number and he called me and told me he loved me and was in love with me. Im like wtf are you serious I couldnt even say it back. At the time I was talking to an aries man but this aquarius man stole me away from him lol. Aries men are great sexually but are controlling and jealous. Also the conversation's were great but the aquarius man is so intelligent and has alot of stuff to talk about which intrigues me and he is so wierd I find him fascinating. After a while of chatting I fell for him finally. We started video chatting everyday all day talking from sun rise to sun down all the time. All of a sudden in the month of june he disapears. Tells me he cant do this and he loves me to much that he dont want to put me in a situation that he is in. Yes he is without a home and doesnt have alot of money but I told him I accept him regardless. Money dont buy love and I told him I can help him out and bring the money there with me from working and we can go look for an apt together. I told him that would be fun he was like yea yea but he wants to do everything for me and spoil me. I told him idc i dont need no man to spoil me. Being with you would be enough for me. Of course the stubborn aquarius didnt wana hear that. So we didnt talk for 2 weeks and then he comes back saying how much he miss my voice and seeing me and talking to me I said I missed you to. I couldnt stop smiling the whole time I was to happy. Everything was fine and dandy lovey dovey talk and yea yea and bla bla this you know having our deep conversations and everything was good. All of a sudden august 4 he say he love me he just cant do this that he in a conspiracy. This man is nuts but for some reason I love him. Its august 15 now this is his third time doing this he did it at the end of may to which I forgot to mention and came back after a week then july 2 weeks now its august and its been 10 days. He said he cant talk to me until he figure it out. I dont have a problem with him doing that but he need to consider how the heck I feel. This time when he comes back Ima give him a dose of medicine. If we suppost to meet 3 months and you still acting immature we can cut it off now is what ima tell him. Because we getting close in time I aint got time for no bull nomore. 3 strikes and you a$$ is out honestly. Im not gone gone the next month with the same ish because he got to clear his mind. If he would just say I need space I need to think about some stuff I will contact you in a week instead of leaving me a msg saying I cant do this its over but he come right back I would accept that. But he dont do that and its breaking my heart. Right now I am talking to a male scoprio but he just a friend and surprisingly we getitng along well. I gota protect myself to just in case he dont come back I wont be left heart broken so Im moving on in my life right now while he still doing his decision making and whatever he doing his mind is full of crazy things. But I will always love him its been 10 days. But when he come back he got alot of explaining to do as why this has been a pattern for the past 3 months when we only got 3 more months left. I wana beat his a$$ but thats my nigg@. I love him.
ReplyDeleteMy situation is different...in his words, I broke him. I'm a Scorpio and he's an Aquarius. I told him not to come over to an event at my house not knowing that he was minutes away and that was the beginning of the end for us. Regardless of my intentions, I was wrong. I turned him away into the arms of someone else. He claims he still wants me but feels I'll hurt him again. He's with her because he feels she won't hurt him, not because he loves and want to be with her. I want him back. How do I get him back? He went out his way to show that he loved and would be there for me and my kids for months. I know he's still hurt and scared but if what he's saying is true, that he's been in love with me for 16 years, there's got to be a way back in.
ReplyDeleteEverybody is bashing aquarius men well I honestly thinl aquarius are only made for aquarius because no one else on earth gets us like we do I'm an aquarius and so is he. He is the love of my life. I couldn't imagine a day without him and sometimes I hate everything about him we are great for a few then we both need our space like right now we can sit in the same house in completely different wings of the house and be totally content but no one has ever loved me deeper and I have never loved anyone deeper we are both 30 both divorced at a young age but the first time I saw him I knew he was all I would ever need 8 years ago I met him 8 years ago I feel in love and in 80 years from now I know we will still love each other the same even if no one else on earth understands as long as we understand each other tjat is all that matters
ReplyDeleteAquarius men are difficult to understand, yes, especially when we are very feminine, emotional or sensitive.
ReplyDeleteBUT they are very loyal, kind, and gentle. The detachment is annoying because women like to be wooed, seduced, attended to but I think the best kind of woman for Aquarius man is independent, cool, active, but still domestic. Paradoxical isn't it? Aquarius is like a prince who is not yet a king but is finding himself always, questioning himself and his environment and life, he needs a beautiful and independent princess who can trust him and leave him to his broodings. He is romantic and likes a clean, nice home. The reunions are sweeter after much time apart, from my experience. What is meant to be will be ladies!!
Wow, it amazes me how many stories relate in some way one to another. Well here's my story.Back in high school I instantly became attracted to a Aqua man.He stood out.The way he walked in the crowd, even the look in his eyes were distant.When he looked at me.I can swear my entire body flushed from head to toe.We met through mutual friends thankfully.One day when the buses stopped and I got off to walk home he came up from behind me and offered to walk me home.I remember the insane feeling a happiness I'm sure my cheeks blushed bright red.We started dating we walked home everyday.It was spring.We fell in love, definitely.One day I went to class and his friend gave me roses from him!It was no specific day.Not my birthday. It was the sweetest thing.We got closer and closer.Then when summer break came.I didn't hear anything.No phone calls, texts, stops to my house.I cried my eyes out yes I did.A few years pass after graduation and we gradually became friends again.Staying out all night literally stargazing in an open field.He tells why he didn't stay with me and it was because a feeling he never felt before.Unusual to him.Vulnerable.He told me right then and there I love you..I couldn't say it back now.Over time I came to closure we were done..a week later I honestly don't remember the reason but I got so angry at him and sent a bunch of hate messages.I ended it all.3 years passed.
ReplyDeleteTime progressed I'm 23 now and a mother to my 2 year old Son.A friend told me today he's leaving to the army soon.My heart sank inside.Only because I feel so much regret and hurting him over a little stupid argument.I know ours paths will cross again most likely in the future.I really do miss the conversations silly jokes to cheer me up when I was upset.Even the kisses on my forehead.Aqua men really are special in there own way, if your relationship is deep and strong enough on a level mentally. Guaranteed they will come back from there random disappearing acts.Either YOU hold on or let go.
-Sun in Libra, Aquarius rising, Venus Saggitarius
This is so strange. It's sad but also funny to see aquarians are all so similar. I have, or don't have anymore, an aquarian bf. We were together for 2 years until I noticed something was going wrong (his aquarian true ways were showing) and I was so afraid of all the suffering that would come that I broke up with him before he could act. I had no idea of how aquarian men were, so probably because I ended the relationship he came back.. and I was so naive to think he was now mature and had changed. I moved countries, I thought we were getting married and sharing a life .. but there he goes again.. away with his excuses of really not being ready for this as he thought he was and how his freedom is just so important he can't live without it. Wish I've found this blog before. At least I'm not feeling alone!
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