Saturn, the ancient ruling planet of Aquarius is retrograde. Travelling backwards in the Libra Zodiac this planet will encourage solitude and reflection on times and people past. This process starts thoroughly on 08 February though the momentous turn backwards will be beckoning from the start of the year – like a pressure that needs to be lifted or a sad chore which needs to be begun. Saturn will seem to be going backwards (this is actually an optical illusion) until 25 June 2012. The worst case scenario is that the Aquarius man might be left in the doldrums when Saturn turns but the best case scenario is more possible and the Aquarius man should be ready with a plan to put something right in his life.
Learning to Love and to be Free
Could Aquarius be turning a negative into a positive this year. Taking a bum hand and coming up with a winner? Perhaps Aquarius man will be addressing issues to do with the way he loves people and himself. Has he shown sufficient respect? Has he treated some people unfairly? Is his relationship (if he is in one) mutually beneficial? Is he a dutiful son, sibling and father? How can he right wrongs before it is too late?
The Beautiful Transit of Venus in Gemini
This contemplative mood will be assisted by the transit of Venus, another planetary movement in the air sign Gemini (Saturn’s manoeuvre takes place in Libra this year). This puts the Aquarius native in the supportive crux of a grand trine. There could be nowhere better under the Zodiac than here so enjoy this beneficial place as, if ever there was one which bestows harmony and grace, here it is.
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It will be difficult for things to go wrong now. Aquarius men (and women for that matter) will be gently but firmly nudged into a better place and into the best case scenario rather than the worst. The transit of Venus takes place from 04 April until 07 August 2012 in Gemini.
Moments of Pure Joy for Aquarius Men | Infectious Joy
If Aquarius men handle this process well they could wake up one morning in August and feel free from the intense pressure that has plagued them over recent years. They could experience great joy and, being Aquarius, this should be infectious. If you are in a solid relationship with an Aquarius man at this time you’ll definitely be in the right place at the right time.
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I am a female who was involved with an Aquarius man some months ago. He was always in my life, but neither of us had "seen" each other in that light before until we chatted one night after a long time and suddenly felt a connection. We began talking after he asked me out and upon moving back to the city I lived in after graduating college, we began dating for the last month of summer. At first I didn't think it would be more than a casual summer fling, but he seemed persistent and wanted more. I could feel that he was very much more into me than I was him, at the time. I left back to school (As I had a year left of college) and he demanded that he come visit me. After a wonderful visit, I began to fall in love and it was here where we decided to call it a long distance relationship. Things were going smoothly - we spoke every day and there was a level of comfort I had never felt with anyone before. He wanted to do the distance because he knew I'd be coming home at the end of every semester and would eventually move back home so this is what kept me motivated to push through.
ReplyDeleteJust as things were getting perfect however, I felt him distancing and before I knew it, he told me he could no longer handle the distance; that he needed me around and missed me too much every day. We broke up, and of course I was devastated, but his reasons seemed fair and logical. A month later, I came across some things he had posted publicly about a mysterious girl he was into. A gut instinct told me it may not be about me. He was always mysterious and aloof and would write song lyrics about the girl he was currently into - when we were together, it would be about me. After some talking and confrontation, he told me one evening that what he had recently written was in regard to his ex girlfriend from years ago. He doesn't understand why he feels this way about her years later, but thinks its because he can't have her. They don't talk very often, but they never had closure and thus she is always the "girl" who he goes back to and refers to in his creative expression.
Could someone tell me why this happens, how this happens and if it is even possible that he is still "in love" with her, considering they haven't seen each other in years? How is it possible that he could date me and be so into me, having felt this way deep down? Was everything we went through just a lie, even though he would tell me I was the girl of his dreams and was the second serious relationship after her? It all does not seem coherent and that's the most painful part. I am trying as hard as I can to understand how Aquarius' do this but I can't seem to find answers; I don't know how it is possible for someone to forget about someone so fast and automatically begin daydreaming about someone from years ago once again.
If you read just a few of the comments beneath other articles on this site at least you will not feel alone. Sorry to say that your experience is typical. Aquarius is the one zodiac sign who will go back. It is no good for you or him to give him a hard time - you'll be driving him back to her - but if you cannot stop yourself from doing so you must know that you have miserable times ahead. The less needy you are of him the more interested he will be in you... think about this and don't lose yourself in worry and anguish - that is no good for you and very unattractive to the Aquarius man.
DeleteThank you so much for the reply. Is there any way I can message you in private and ask for your opinion, I am desperate for what to do now and incredibly upset. Thanks : (
DeleteBe strong and start to celebrate and be yourself. The thought and sight of a woman desperate for them is totally unattractive to an Aquarius man. They find such displays confusing and somewhat embarrassing even if their behavior has more or less manufactured it.
DeleteThis is an Aquarius man we are considering. He's thinking (probably something like) "bombs are landing on homes in Homs, Syria. Children are being killed by an army but meanwhile she is feeling sorry for herself". This may sound brutal but he has a point.
Also, you actually know what is going on here and if you can be strong and manipulative you will gain the upper hand. You wrote:
"He doesn't understand why he feels this way about her years later, but thinks its because he can't have her. They don't talk very often, but they never had closure and thus she is always the "girl" who he goes back to".
So it might take years. If you are prepared to act a part and become the person he first found attractive, stop being desperate, put your life and him in perspective, make yourself happy despite of him and treat him like the ex does then you have every chance of a replay. But who knows how long that will take? Hopefully you'll rediscover who you are in the process and that you are better off onn your own than with someone who had the ability to make you feel this miserable. Either that or you'll happen upon someone who at times (happiness is not a constant) makes you really happy.
There is no point in being in a relationship unless it improves your life.
A colleague has just published Can an Aquarius Man Commit to a Relationship? PART ONE (http://aquariusmen.blogspot.com/2012/02/can-aquarius-men-commit-to-relationship.html). This might offer useful advice. We will be offering a consultation service soon in which we compare the partners zodiac charts and tell it exactly as it is. Logistics and costs of this have not been worked out but we should be publishing something soon. In the meantime I hope this had been useful.
Here's one for ya:
ReplyDeleteI have the oddball of the Aquarians. This one is shy, he's social in his safety circle of friends, but not outside of that. 4 years ago, the first time I saw him, I was awestruck. It was just in passing, had no clue who it was until 2 years later (when I still couldn't get his face out of my head) I realized we worked together. A year later I returned to town, he came one night and I drunkenly went right up to him and introduced myself, to my surprise he knew exactly who I was...I thought I thoroughly embarrassed myself. A few days later, he added me on Facebook. I instantly "poked" him. Time to time, a "like" here a "comment" there. One night I sent him a message telling him, in response to his wall post, that a guy like him shouldn't be watching a movie alone on a Friday night...he replied that night with a big "Thanks!!! :)" A week or so later, I sent him a link about a concert he would love and he was stoked on it, we a mild conversation about how all the good girls are not gone, and that was that. He and I are both homebodies as we don't really party much, so we rarely see each other. I am still a virgin at 24, don't smoke cigs at all, and only drink around my closest of friends. He dislikes the normal girl our age, he's 28, and prefers the good girl. We both do not find ourself attractive, despite what others say. Last week, one of our mutual friends left town and we both ended up in the same place. Our close mutual friend said "we hug around here" and we both look at each other, looked down, then hugged in this weird awkward way. He asked me how my injury was doing witha sweet smile, and as we were about to embark on a conversation, someone snagged me away...another guy...as there were a few that did such all night. The entire night I felt this magnetism, and this weird feeeling like we should be talking to each other...but we're not....a few mutual friends made the same comment. We all went back to his house to chill for a while, and if ever I looked his way and he was looking my way, instant look down and away.
Part 2:
ReplyDeleteOne time, a guy was talking to me, clearly interested, and I looked around (as I felt uncomfortable) and I saw him looking over, by himself, and when our gaze met, he looked away and turned around. When we left that night, he said to our mutual friend "aww, you guys are leavving?!" and she meantioned how she was right and that he and I should come out more often, he grinned look at the floor and agreed. Later that night, she and her close friend both agreed I was perfect that night, outgoing, fun, mysterious, and independant and glowing of confidence...which may be intimidating to him. Then they broke down and told me that he was eyeing me all night, and quite often. They didnt tell me then, because they knew I would have left for fear of being awkward or whatever. I am a Sagitarius. I am not the quindissential Sag who flies from one guy to the next flaking around and sleeping around. I am bashful around guys I find attractive and potential boys Ide like to date. I hate "dating" and I don't hookup with randoms. I have no idea what to do with this guy! I do not want to blow up his facebook feed with comments, nor do I want to play it too cool. I do not want to play Games! I don't want to wait for this uber slow gradual thing to come about either as we live fairly distant apart and we barely see one another now unless our friends are together. I have tickets for the concert I emailed him about, our close mutual friend is coming with me and I think this Sunday (the Solar Eclipse) is a perfect time to ask. Do I ask in a super cool, calm fashion, do I make it flirty? Should I ask and our close friend also ask so its not so intense right off the bat? How can I let him in on the fact that I am interested in getting to know him and being solid friends, but not just to be friends. That I have more interest there. I know for a fact that he is in the search of a potential girlfriend. What do I do? How do I act/react?
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See.......Sagittarius........I am also Aquarius .Man........Being in a relationship..and writing song lines about past is not possible for me....!......You must ask to him Y u r doing this to me.? or U can can ask ur question straight to him "What do I do? How do I act/react?"..Dont ever pull this into an argument format......"......If u can talk to him FACE TO FACE.....!
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